How much is too much?
Does anyone else find it drags you down when you are chatting to someone, it's going well, and then they commence to dump their emotional baggage onto you? Complaining about their life choices, their wife/husband, their problems at home, why their partner isn't giving them sex, their kids, their relatives? Particularly when you've not even met? Turn off?
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marklondonengland - 20 Feb, 2024 - 12:21PM
On of the most basic rules with an IE (or lover or FWB or whatever you call it) is that you should be focusing this time on the fun things... the romance, passion, great sex and kisses - all the things you are missing from your regular day-to-day life. If you just want a new partner so you can complain about the current one then maybe a therapist is more appropriate than a lover... move on from anyone that thinks complaining about their partner is normal!
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1644733 - 20 Feb, 2024 - 12:06PM
I haven't signed up to be an agony aunt 🤷♂️
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Thinkingwomanshunk - 20 Feb, 2024 - 11:05AM
Not as part of the online "seduction" routine, but it does help with the mental connection having at least an idea what the other person is about.
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Marriednlonely - 20 Feb, 2024 - 10:12AM
It depends on how long things are chatted about for. I think we’re all on here with some emotional baggage and if I’m making a connection then I want it to be a proper connection. Hearing about stuff like this is real life and a real relationship. I wouldn’t want it to dominate endless conversations but I’m always happy to listen :)
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