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1559929 - 20 Oct, 2023 - 12:07PM

It all depends what we want as an individual. If u are looking for a genuine connection and a serious affair then I thinks its better to be genuine from the start. If its a fling then u can limit certain things. As for, dont think I can live pretentious life, I somehow dont think I deserve that, so prefer to be real with someone genuine.

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1601870 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 02:07PM

Be honest from the start, then you won’t have to remember the lies… don’t embellish the profile , or say you are 20 years younger, blonde hair at 70, is unlikely….. face to face can be brutal…….

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George2000 - 14 Oct, 2023 - 08:37PM

For me I try to be honest when I get asked a question but at the same time not give too much away in case things go awry later. I find most people are Ok with that.
In the early stages of an IE relationship I prefer to concentrate on getting to know about the person and not their daily lives.

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FluffyClouds - 14 Oct, 2023 - 02:18PM

Having had a couple of men admit they have tried to find me online by searching for me via my phone number, I'm more inclined to not give too much away in the early weeks. Some take their bat and ball home but that's their problem really.

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1628887 - 12 Oct, 2023 - 10:57AM

I would keep it about me and me alone. No last names or personal info about my family.

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Naughty in NW - 11 Oct, 2023 - 08:05PM

Glass-Half-Fun

I can only speak for myself of course, but I'd prefer to describe it as being cautious rather than suspicious. After all, the vast majority of us on here have a lot to lose if the shit hits the fan. Hence the importance of discretion.

Shag behind the pub ?. Naahh.....not for me. Just want a mutually respectful relationship. Perhaps I've misunderstood your post?

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1627611 - 11 Oct, 2023 - 07:42PM

My flabber is gasted by the comments on here. You’re all so suspicious! I guess if your idea of heaven is a shag behind the pub, then fine, but really?!

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Naughty in NW - 10 Oct, 2023 - 08:06PM

I think what we are prepared to disclose correlates to what type of relationship we are hoping to find on here.

If you are seeking a very casual relationship you might not wish to disclose much at all about yourself. And I guess the expectation to do so it's not really going to be there.

However, if you are looking for a longer term relationships where intimacy involves really getting to know each other, and understand your partner's reason for being here, you might want to share more personal stuff. Each to their own, as long as both your expectations/reservations to share are respected.

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princeofpassion69 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 08:24PM

I think only disclose what you’re comfortable with at the start. There are no hard and fast rules (as it were!), but the main thing is to have fun and feel safe and comfortable with each other. If it’s for you, it won’t go by you, right?

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Toffee.macchiato4 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 07:51PM

It’s strange here
I have a unique name so I don’t reveal it early on in chats. It’s none of ur business till we meet😁 Genuinely a guys personal business is none of mine till we coffee. Then my curiousity is piqued. 🤔
I’ll ask lots of questions but I suspect a guy will only tell me what he wants me to know
I have no problem with that at all
Occupation is a good start though seems less invasive somehow 🙂

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