How much contact in between meets is enough contact....
How many messages do you and your IE have in between meets and what do you
think is acceptable? Is once or twice a week enough or do you feel you
must have at least one message per day??
I am happy with a few messages a week, it does not have to be daily for me
but I know others yearn and need that daily message or messages - what do
you like?
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Enigma.. - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:26PM
It can be difficult for some Ie “couples”.
Because of my job I don’t have access to my mobile during working hours so some male members, even though I explained this to them, have ghosted or blocked me.
Email is out.
Tried kik and got fed up with the adds constantly running across the bottom of the screen and all the fake prossie accounts.
Looks like I need to get a second phone lol 😂
MidsHedonist - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:21PM
Telegram, few messages per week, or more if the flirting is creating sexual tension in the run up to meeting!
1408586 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:16PM
For my long term affair- WhatsApp convo archived/locked/notifications off
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secretdinnerdate - 12 Apr, 2023 - 02:57PM
One phone... telegram with current - have not used kik in ages..
Others used What's App ...
I think I tend to default to telegram now as you do not need to exchange numbers at first.
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secretdinnerdate - 12 Apr, 2023 - 02:57PM
Do we use text ?
Or use Kik or Telegram or Signal ?
Do you have multiple phones ?
Paula99 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 02:37PM
It does depend on your relationship with your IE.. ?
If there is a deep emotional connection then the texting and the calls are a daily thing …😊
You could have an IE that contacts you once a week to make arrangements to meet because he works /stays overnight near you …😊
Another type is you can have no daily conversation and just sext /FaceTime .
You need to ask yourself what do I want …is it safe to message each other …set the boundary
There are times when you or your IE will be away on holiday …do you still text ?
Some don’t like to text
…if you get to know the OP then you will soon discover your own system 👍
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secretdinnerdate - 12 Apr, 2023 - 02:23PM
@Jacksonpollock101
I'll disband the posse.
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1592675 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 01:52PM
@secretdd,
I better re-phrase that comment with some men can't..., before I get lynched 🤐
Sandypops - 12 Apr, 2023 - 01:35PM
I'm here to read the comments 😂 I'm pretty new and not had a meet-up (yet)
I'm enjoying the banter, flirting, getting a mental connection. All my chats are relatively new, so a lot of messaging (from most) as still getting to know each other but talking about meeting for coffee and seeing if there's more potential with any particular person (I'm not planning on lots 😂)
But very aware that we all have another life and so have no expectations on amount of messaging - though I like that excited anticipation when my 'phone pings 😊
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