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How much contact in between meets is enough contact....

How many messages do you and your IE have in between meets and what do you
think is acceptable? Is once or twice a week enough or do you feel you
must have at least one message per day??

I am happy with a few messages a week, it does not have to be daily for me
but I know others yearn and need that daily message or messages - what do
you like?

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FluffyClouds - 12 Apr, 2023 - 04:52PM

Enigma -

Agree, I dislike Kik intensely. Nothing worse than waiting for a message from someone you are expecting a message from and it turns out the notification is a sex worker asking if I want to see her tits.

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1460472 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 04:48PM

Kik is not a safe platform too easily hacked, telegram seems to work quite well...everyone turns to WhatsApp but that requires a mobile number given out whereas telegram doesn't someone close to my heart showed me telegram...

However whilst messaging here isn't the easiest it is secure I've had women move to whatsapp then get caught thinking they use it all the time beware you won't know it butvyour focus and behaviour will change if you message on whatsapp delete once read and make sure notifications are turned off when your phone is not with you!


secretdinnerdate - 12 Apr, 2023 - 04:39PM

If she works for MI5 she's already chased your IP address and has your home details and rifling through your emails now ...


1592675 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 04:36PM

I think @Paula99 either works for MI5 or has been at this for a while now 😉


Springit - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:57PM

One other thought ! Of course it depends on what the messages are. I’ve just started messaging someone on here who actually puts some effort into messaging. Not a few word answers. It does make such a difference than brief responses

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Enigma.. - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:43PM

Paula99…

Didn’t I send you a copy?!? 😉🤣😊

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Enigma.. - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:41PM

My partner uses my laptop so I keep it “clear” of anything suss.
My iPad and iPhone are connected so no Kik or contacts that look suss are added.
No second phone. It’s difficult enough handling one lol.
WhatsApp works for me.
Email is a no go.

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secretdinnerdate - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:38PM

@Enigma

Weird you're being blocked because you're not able to reply. Why don't people just say "no problem - I'll move on" ... Are some people just "odd" ?

> got fed up with the adds constantly running across the bottom of the screen and all the fake prossie accounts.

You mean those women arent interested in me for my wit and panache ? Damn

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Paula99 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:35PM

I think we need to have a ‘cheaters guide to shagging other people ‘ 😂😂😂

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Paula99 - 12 Apr, 2023 - 03:34PM

Stick with one platform..such as kik or Telegram

Progress to what’s app if your sure it’s ’the one’

Having 2 phones is difficult to do and you need your wits about you …keep everything in one place ..apps are easy to delete… I do everything on my phone and my phone is always with me…..remember if you have an IPad as well as a I phone your ‘dirty work ‘ will be there too… don’t link your accounts ..make sure your location is off ..and don’t install ‘find my phone ‘ 😊

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