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justtheguynextdoor - 11 Mar, 2025 - 10:38PM

I think there can be some advantages when someone is playing away from home as it means you are less likely to get recognised it bumps in to someone but at the same time you do not want to be too far away or dealing with someone who is looking for a person in every port.

Dr3amb0x - 10 Mar, 2025 - 03:47PM

I'm personally looking for someone nearby, I am a truck drive and travel a lot, but not really practical to have an affair whilst working lol.
That being said I wouldn't say no to traveling for the right one.

marklondonengland - 10 Mar, 2025 - 01:54PM

It entirely depends what you are looking for and how free you are to travel. I met an IE once who was visting the UK from the USA, where she lived. I saw her while she was on holiday in London and then every other month I would visit the US and she would frequently visit the UK on alternate months. That worked well until she started developing more feelings and wanted to consider a full-time relationship - which we resolved by becoming just friends, as we still are several years on...

1748616 - 10 Mar, 2025 - 08:22AM

upto 2 hours is fine for me to travel for the right person on a weekly/2 weekly basis. finding the right person seems to be more difficult at my age!

1757504 - 10 Mar, 2025 - 08:16AM

Interesting subject & comments, this happens to me quite often & my response always asks how they expect it to work with such a huge distance involved.
Frequently their response says ‘let’s chat & see how it goes’ etc and IF I go along with this it inevitably turns out to be a fake account attempting to target online vulnerabilities.
I realise I’m probably naive to the ways of this modern world, but seems odd that anyone states they are looking for regular meets, in an old school 1 -1 affair scenario and then engages with someone flippin miles away….
I am but a simple chap & easily baffled but really??

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Marlen - 25 Jan, 2024 - 02:22AM

Any more than an hour's travel each way is unlikely to work.
That is 2 hours plus 'play' time.
One compromise is a meet in the middle scenario, but depending on this, its still a stress on an IE relationship.

By the same token, don't play in your own garden...Not all affairs end amicably and you really don't want to have to avoid your local amenities

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Paula99 - 02 Jan, 2024 - 08:04PM

Arista..

Anticipation creates a lot of things ..but travelling long distances puts stress on both parties …it also creates lots of cancellations due to family commitments..
Unless you are both working away for your professions then it could be possible but that scenario is rare as sometime or other you have to go ‘ home ‘

Anticipation just means ‘wet knickers’ / or premature ejaculation when you’re driving …😂😂😂

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Doricles - 02 Jan, 2024 - 01:22PM

Arista - 02 Jan, 2024 - 12:47PM

“Does anticipation create desire...?”

If it doesn’t, then you ought to consider using a PAYG service and not one based on a subscription! 😉

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Arista - 02 Jan, 2024 - 12:47PM

Does anticipation create desire...?

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1447655 - 02 Jan, 2024 - 05:45AM

Think twice before you contact a profile that is miles away. Most people here haven't got a clue to begin with, without adding in the complication of distance.

A distance affair is an extreme sport. It massively heightens the desire, but it comes with added risks. Travel adds strain and people don't travel hours just for sex, which increasing the stakes again. The pressure on a first date is increased, infact it puts pressure on every meet to be amazing. Forget meeting up for a quick 'catch-up', spontanaity is impossible, so you better be fabulous at messaging, which most men aren't. You could revert to glorious amounts of sexting, but it's a placebo to the real intimacy of physical connection.

Don't overcomplicated things. It may be an amazing connection you find by clicking on that far flung profile, but if you have to look that far to find a someone it would be better to look in real life for an affair partner than on here.

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