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First date?

What's a good first date idea? It's yonks since I've last been to a restaurant. Work and Life is just SO busy.

Is a restaurant even what you really want to do on a first date anyway?

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Chevere - 07 Sep, 2022 - 11:08PM

The whole "let's face each other over a table for dinner" isn't the greatest setting is it?

I like the suggestions of strolls in the park, something relaxed. Although I think my own preference would be a small/medium music gig for a bit of energy, fun and easy setting.

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laweddedbelle - 07 Sep, 2022 - 10:20PM

Going for coffee somewhere neither of you would usually go so you’re not spotted by anyone you know. Coffee is simple and it can be kept short.

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leggysheila - 06 Sep, 2022 - 07:37AM

Lets face it both of you are sizing each other up to see if its worth getting undressed. I'VE been on a couple of dates when nothing happened just drink and talking so its down to both of you to take it further XXX

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1539474 - 05 Sep, 2022 - 10:00AM

Witch 1

Indeed, implying your time is reliant on transactions is a big red flag flapping in the wind, a very unromantic signal

It’s a very incongruous ‘welcome’ in the age of ‘strong independent women’ and anti-Trump pussy marches

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Paula99 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 04:45PM

High heels649..

Its ok to message guys first...go for it

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1534574 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 03:30PM

I message men first but not often, I prefer them to chase

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1483184 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 01:32PM

Mrs smith , I’m with dotty , your profile says you like to be treated well , on here that tends to imply you want stuff !. Makes men run a mile

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Sep, 2022 - 12:58PM

Mrs Smith41 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 09:07AM

I don't have a problem sending the first message if I find the profile interesting.
Genuine profiles do reply.


1529050 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 11:10AM

Mrs Smith41 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 09:07AM

Not sure if your serious but if you’re looking for a yacht owner ….. maybe that’s why guys not replying 🤷🏻‍♀️ Although my last IE did in fact own a yacht so it’s possible 😂👍🏻

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Mrs Smith41 - 03 Sep, 2022 - 09:07AM

Slightly off topic, how do you get to a first date? As a lady, I've now started to search and for the first time I am initiating contact with profiles I like. I don’t always get replies, how many ladies send first messages or is it usually left to the man?

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