Comments (86)

Zayn98 - 29 Jan, 2024 - 06:04PM

I definitely get a thrill, not sure if I’d class it as a fetish though!

 1 member likes this comment.

Hertsguy36 - 29 Jan, 2024 - 04:19PM

It’s not the rush of an affair as per se, but the joy of meeting a lady who’s seeking the same as me, that intense and mutually fulfilling connection , know that we are pleasing each other and getting what each other desires , that’s what does it for me
HG

 2 members like this comment.

1636787 - 29 Jan, 2024 - 04:05PM

I enjoy it. I enjoy meeting someone that you know is looking for something that IE offers.
Having said that we are all thankfully different.
The forbidden fruit element of it all is undoubtedly an attraction.
The fantasy element is very arousing and if mutual has to be the major attraction for me.

Doricles - 29 Jan, 2024 - 03:57PM

OK, I'm not the "Correct use of English police" but 'a thrill' is not a fetish! A fetish is sexual arousal in response something a person might hold, smell, rub, or taste i.e. feet or shoes, or ask their partner to wear or use during sex. That said, are affairs thrilling? Yes, you're darn tooting they are, unless of course, you're emotionally detached from both your existing partner and your IE! Many of the IE profiles I've read openly and honestly declare the member to be otherwise happy with their life and they're not looking to change their status or circumstances. What they're looking for is a chance to feel alive again! To be wanted, desired and found attractive by someone of the opposite sex (or same sex). To be the sexually promiscuous person they once were or become more sexually promiscuous because they've never been that person, and now they're an adult, they want to experience as many shades of grey as they can! Anyone who doesn't find that thrilling needs a fontal lobotomy! 🤷‍♂️

FluffyClouds - 28 Jan, 2024 - 05:26PM

There's a difference to feeling a thrill with a person and a thrill seeker. Thrill seekers are never satisfied no matter who they're with, they always want more and usually not from you alone.

 7 members like this comment.

Funguy77 - 28 Jan, 2024 - 09:05AM

@LadyDe

Aye I sure do and I’m a try Scott 😏

 3 members like this comment.

Sinfully_Seductive - 28 Jan, 2024 - 12:31AM

Its a thrill granted. Do we go into these things lightly? Probably not. Why do we have affairs? What are we missing at home? Can it be changed?

LadyDe - 27 Jan, 2024 - 11:52PM

@funguy77

Pls tell me you have a Scottish accent … this could be my Fish Called Wanda moment 🤞🤞

 2 members like this comment.

Paula99 - 26 Jan, 2024 - 08:55PM

EmnEmn123

I am not described as humourless and disapproving🤔
I agree we all go into this for different reasons ..if you just want a cheap thrill then there are plenty of outlets…

 3 members like this comment.

EmnEm123 - 26 Jan, 2024 - 08:34PM

Paula99

You're beginning to sound a wee bit po-faced.
People go into affairs/relationships for all sorts of reasons, surely 'a thrill' is the main one?