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shyguy65 - 02 Aug, 2025 - 03:46PM

I tdon't think it's a fetish. it's perfectly natural to feel the thrill of an illicit 'affair' in it's early stages. Don't we all?
But if it's ONLY the thrill of the affair, that excites you, and not what the affair itself brings to you and your partner, it seems to me that once the thrill has worn off, you'll crave the next one, and the next, and the next.........
A bit like a drug habit maybe? Exciting at first, but very dangerous once you're hooked!

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Delicious Chaos - 02 Aug, 2025 - 01:28PM

Thrill equates to a red flag in my book. I would steer well clear of anyone thinking like that

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laugar164 - 02 Aug, 2025 - 12:13PM

I don't see it as a thrill it's about entering a new phase in you life where you can share , explore each others passions and have some quality time with one and another who's looking for simular experiences

Paula99 - 02 Aug, 2025 - 10:43AM

There is no thrill in having to ‘lie’ about your personal habits …but there is something that draws the ‘wanderers’ to a double life ….

However I seem to recall an early post ..quote Thrill seekers are never satisfied no matter who they're with, they always want more and usually not from you alone...unquote 🤔

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GinUrso - 02 Aug, 2025 - 10:29AM

Agree with all of the above…. The butterflies and excitement from an affair is amazing, more than in a traditional full time relationship.

Bikerbaddboy25 - 02 Aug, 2025 - 10:03AM

Yes of course it's something new and exciting. Even better if you actually get meet and the sparks fly like an angle grinder on a metal bar

TallNnorty - 03 Feb, 2025 - 12:00PM

If there is no thrill in doing this what is the point! Without doubt for me it is about meeting other like minded women that seeking the same for whatever the reason. The fact that i am with another mans woman, doing things to her she loves and craves is a huge turn on, knowing that other woman is pleasuring my another woman's man is very naughty and exciting. If I was doing it with her knowledge it would just be a open relationship and not illicit!

Zeitgeist9395 - 15 Dec, 2024 - 01:41AM

It’s more than normal. It’s a buzz to escape the drudgery of domestic life.

1680254 - 13 Dec, 2024 - 11:21AM

Yes I get a thrill but you message people and they ghost you so that thrill is gone 😌

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Sandokan1900 - 09 Dec, 2024 - 04:33PM

Best way but we must pay attention but if 2 person are clever is fantastic stuff

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