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Meeting my IE for the first time...

I am planning on meeting my IE for the first time. We have spent a lot of time talking and now we want to make things happen in person. Where can we meet? What hotels allow for 'day room' access?
 

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Man_Alive_2025 - 07 May, 2025 - 09:57AM

A solution might be to get 2 dates in the diary quite close together before that first meet. Put aside an hour or longer for coffee and a general temperature check with the knowledge that if it goes well the day use is there and already planned. That can add to the frisson of the initial date too. You both want it but are going to have to wait just a little bit longer…

Look at me talking like an expert! I’m still available btw 🤣

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Mike Stanley - 06 May, 2025 - 02:27PM

I think you just ask the hotel. Some years ago I had no problem arranging it. They have to change the bedsheets so you must accept a charge for this.


EmnEm123 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:53PM

Lady De

You're a woman after my own heart, most of the guys on here are right pussies!

Sorry, but it's true.

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Purple dreamer - 05 May, 2025 - 06:34AM

Why would anyone to book a room on first meet what happens if you get together and the chemistry just is not there when face to face
People can be very different from messages or speaking over the phone
And if it is perfect then what is the issue with a room next time unless planning a one off

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LadyDe - 04 May, 2025 - 10:10PM

For me personally it depends on the gut feel .. something I think us women are pros at …
I came to this site not long ago (few yrs)
I have a philosophy that we’re not here to just date, so I chat on telegram, meet, then dayuse … trust me only a couple have got to dayuse and beyond … but the IEs I’ve met have been the most amazing experience.. trust and connections are the key ..

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EmnEm123 - 04 May, 2025 - 07:23PM

Well I work, so I don't understand this daytime sort of thing.


New-Lover - 04 May, 2025 - 04:59PM

I have made all decisions after a couple of lunch dates to progress to using Dayroom. It is simple and easy to use. We took turns in booking a place.

I can’t see why this can’t happen in the future when I meet someone who I want to progress with .


EmnEm123 - 04 May, 2025 - 04:56PM

Enigma

Plenty of pish is only available in Scotland!


Delicious Chaos - 04 May, 2025 - 03:24PM

Tbh I don’t think people are using this for a quick hook up site, the best site for that (neeld) wotk it out! On there people are completely up front about what they want

Too many interactions here are either those you just want the online adoration or think they want an affair but then remember oh actually no I can’t do that!

I blame Covid! Things were much better pre Covid.

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Enigma.. - 04 May, 2025 - 10:31AM

The below, lol, has needed to be posted for quite so time….

Yes everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

So you can like it or lump it.

This wasn’t designed to be a punt and shunt site… 🙄

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