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Would love to hear other people's views on single persons preferences on married dating? Many thanks.
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tea_coffee_me_ - 03 Jan, 2021 - 05:22PM
Several of the men I have seen had NEVER planned to see someone who was not married, for those reasons mentioned.
I am guessing due to my personality they 'took a risk' and it worked.
For many I have NO idea with their timetables how they could possibly have had an affair with another married person!
Due to how often many married people are able to meet, I take my hat off to those in a married/married affairs!
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ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2021 - 05:18PM
KLC - 03:57PM
Hear, hear ... well said.
As for this much talked about "discretion" that all the "unhappily marrieds" bang on about, I am more discreet than any married person I know ... there are men who use their real name on emails/kik, who use the office email address, who send pics taken with their kids/friends, etc, etc ... then there are married men who get clingy/needy and offer to leave their wives ... I could go on and on so don't talk to me about only marrieds who know what discretion is. 🙄
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KarenLovesCamping - 03 Jan, 2021 - 03:57PM
I'm single, just live a 'married lifestyle', keeping a house, earning a living, and raising children. The reason for being here? I want the good bits, dates, messages, fun, but without wanting to disrupt my established and enjoyable life and introduce a partner to my kids. Believe me, discretion is high priority to me, if you think a spouse can be suspicious, try teenagers!
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1365082 - 03 Jan, 2021 - 03:13PM
As a single ... long time divorced woman, who’s sane and has a good job great friends I don’t want a fully committed relationship so a married guy suits me,
It’s horses for courses I think as long as you’re respectful and honest about what you’re looking for any type of relationship can work ... and yes there are those that fail too.. whether you’re single or married.
My New Years resolution last year was to have more fun and adventure in my life with another person ... that obviously went tits up ... but I live in hope 2021 is an improvement.
Good luck to everyone that you find what you’re looking for this year and if you don’t, I hope you have at least enjoyed a little sparkle on the way. X
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1386735 - 03 Jan, 2021 - 02:23PM
I did date a single person when I first started this adventure. It lasted a good 18 months, but yes he did want more and I wasn’t prepared to give it.
Dating a single has its advantages believe me...but I don’t think it makes a difference whether you are married or single, sometimes things go tits up, that’s part of the game.
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RumplesBear - 03 Jan, 2021 - 02:00PM
Caroline Red
And many affairs end in tears when people mess up/get found out etc- the single factor isn't even in the equation at that point. Funny thing is, people know that risk and here everyone is going all in against the house.
Anyway, as long as both parties respect the boundaries and get on with it, the risk is pretty much the same. The idea someone's going to walk into a yandere-esque situation with a singleton here is over played.
1428713 - 03 Jan, 2021 - 01:52PM
After being (happily) ? Married for over 40 years I think I fully qualify to shout out I need an affair. At least I finally found what I truly need thanks to lockdown!!!
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Live, life, love - 03 Jan, 2021 - 01:51PM
Caroline Red. I'm a single person on this site and had a couple of affairs met on this site and one lasting 7 years who I didn't meet on here I don't agree with your comment
It does indeed work for me, rest assured I'm no bunny boiler! I'm not needy or jealous not a heart of stone either
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