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Eejit69 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 05:03PM

I guess it depends on your definition of successful.
On a previous venture here it did culminate (very satisfactorily) in a full blown affair. However I didn't actually set out with any notion of what to expect. To be honest, I was actually a little surprised.

This time around, I've met some lovely people online and consider it a success - I've been mentally challenged, had humorous exchanges, ventured into "what-ifs" and had the experience and excitement that it brings. Of course there have been the rude or ill-mannered but my experience has been that they are in the minority. Sadly, given the current situation I have no expectation of getting much beyond the virtual world for a while yet - but it's good to keep communicating and potentially assists in something that may work better?

1422646 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 02:03PM

The best lust story that I ever experienced and ever will, happened thanks to IE.

It ended, but I don't regret anything!

Now I was back on the site and met someone else entirely out of the box, and I enjoyed him a lot hopefully long term.

The problem is that men want a woman to have sex with making the same effort he does at home with his wife, while the woman wants to have sex with a man who puts more effort than the husband.

Every time a man went the extra mile for me (meeting me quickly, sending me flowers, booking a nice hotel) shows he wants an affair and not quick free sex and at least for me it says a lot.

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PecanPie - 13 Jan, 2021 - 01:25PM

Met someone I really liked; he was my type to the tee but then this things happen

1424835 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 01:22PM

@ anonymouse-1 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 01:11PM

I’m not sure I’d say naive - but the dynamic may be different to what you envisage. I suppose it’s one of those things where if you’re in doubt you could always have a test drive of some elements.

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1320953 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 01:11PM

I'd be interested to know the view of people in respect of thinking completely out the box... I recently been contacted by some dominant men looking for a more submisve women in the bedroom. I've been saying no thank you as I'd never considered this. But as we are discussing the merits of being with someone you didn't think was your type....
I should say the reason I said no was Im coming out of a very controlling marriage and I definitely know that I have no wish to have punishment in any part of any relationship in or out of the bedroom. Am I being niave to not consider a dominant man?

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1424835 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 12:34PM

Not sure really - I think interacting over the internet in some ways feels detached and unreal. People behave very differently in person, whether that’s because of a lower inhibition threshold online or element of caution. I’m so far as the initial contact via the site or elsewhere online is concerned it’s too hard to say. In terms of how things pan out, perhaps in some respects but then I’ve never had a preconceived idea of who I might meet.

Doc Johnson - 13 Jan, 2021 - 12:13PM

The fun is in finding someone you didn't anticipate as your type who absolutely blows your mind. I have been lucky in the distant past having met 2 amazing women (at different times) but I currently have a vacancy if anyone is interested?

1426763 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 11:26AM

I've been on here before and met a fantastic woman. Not at all what I thought I'd meet.
That's why I say I am open minded, not just a cliché.
Why narrow anybodys options.
I live in a big empty county, its hard enough normally without lockdown and travel restrictions!!

1354963 - 15 Dec, 2020 - 12:47PM

I think as most say Be open minded. I thought I was but slowly learning that I’m possibly not as open minded as I thought. However I have given some really nice guys a chance in the past when I didn’t instantly find them attractive but the attraction never grew. Still looking however spoken to some lovely people.

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Trwela - 15 Dec, 2020 - 08:39AM

I haven't found anyone on here yet but I have only been live on IE for three months and am looking for a partner for long term friendship and wherever that goes. I am completely open minded.

I have had an affair in the past which lasted and I found exactly who I was looking for. It just takes patience and respect.