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Hi,
I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met someone I really like, and now we want to take it to the next level. How can I be sure this is the right thing for me... I've never done anything like this before.

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SexiEyes - 22 Feb, 2025 - 01:28PM

Take the plunge, but 1st make sure you have a video call to make sure they are who they say they are ..I didn't do this and was shocked when we decided to meet lol

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Paula99 - 22 Feb, 2025 - 12:26PM

If you are that unsure ….you shouldn’t be thinking about an affair ….this isn’t a way out but I do understand where you are coming from. You are stuck in your relationship for whatever reason and someone has advised you to try this ?…If you are looking for an end to your currant relationship then you must think about the consequences…the grass isn’t greener….even though I have been in your position….I would gladly turn the clock back and have my marriage like it used to be …

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Queenbolt666 - 22 Feb, 2025 - 11:05AM

Take it at your own pace and make sure he knows how you feel, there will always be an element of guilt.. at least at first but you only live once and we are all here to have a good fun and have a good time!

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musingsofawanderingmind - 11 Jan, 2025 - 01:25AM

There will always be guilt and regrets, idea is to choose which ones.


1739233 - 04 Jan, 2025 - 10:33AM

No one goes into a marriage looking to divorce or have an affair. These things pop up when there's been difficulties or something missing within the marriage for some time. If you're feeling these things then they didn't just appear overnight. Don't doubt yourself. Whether you choose to pursue anything is your choice but you also can't preempt guilt as you may not feel any! Instead, it might be the confirmation you needed.

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Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:58AM

Lulu401 - 02 Jan, 2025 - 10:40PM

401 ? Reference to a web error ?
I was 403 previously;)


Lulu401 - 02 Jan, 2025 - 10:40PM

Depends what you have to loose if you are caught or you just need to be so careful as if you are thinking about it seems to me you want to


Playboy999 - 02 Jan, 2025 - 12:18PM

Go for it!
Just be open and honest with the other party. Do things at your own pace and just see where things go


Clickable Connection - 02 Jan, 2025 - 09:43AM

Celery - if you have guilt now , then I'm thinking this isn't for you. Maybe you like the idea more than the actual act ?

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Celery - 02 Jan, 2025 - 09:05AM

I fully understand I have recently joined and am full of doubts, I think I need the intimacy for the right reasons but how do I stop the guilt I feel just logging on.

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