Communication
I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice would be appreciated
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Andrea Andrew - 04 Jan, 2024 - 10:28AM
24 ….7!
or
Build up the tension between chats…..
Depends …. I prefer the latter….. sometimes!
LadyDe - 04 Jan, 2024 - 10:02AM
This is tricky I try to be lead by them.. some find it easier in the day but then they’re trying to work… some in the evenings but equally other half’s might wonder why on phone all night …
Yep just ask them what works but you’ll get into a flow as you know them anyway…
Personally I like it, it builds anticipation, intrigue and want !
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Lucky7s - 04 Jan, 2024 - 09:40AM
If it was me, I would discuss this with her and get a plan together of good times to message and times to completely avoid. From experience, messages at certain times could be a complete no go and ruin things before it even gets started. Good luck 🤞🏼
1586130 - 04 Jan, 2024 - 12:59AM
You should message her a lot less often than she messages you. Clingy guys never last.
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1640227 - 29 Dec, 2023 - 08:43PM
OFFS
1635363 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 11:38PM
A good morning and good night let’s them know that you are thinking of them and any other snippets throughout your day
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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 10:03PM
Fluffy Clouds
I read your profile and your words echo much of what I wrote. Great minds and all that 😉 x
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FluffyClouds - 27 Dec, 2023 - 05:27PM
Doricles -
I agree there needs to be a chemistry on initial first messages plus on the first meet to create that buzz.
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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 12:34PM
The frequency and length of messages exchanged at the start of a new relationship is influenced by many factors, but in my experience, if the chemistry is there, and an immediate connection is formed, both parties will feel the buzz and they’ll crave constant contact with each other. We all know why we’re here and the prospect of a new illicit encounter (or a first one) raises expectations and drives both parties in a burgeoning relationship to find ways to communicate as often as their particular circumstances allow. It’s all part and parcel of embarking on something new and exciting: a chance for both parties to feel wanted and alive again!
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