Unconventional First Dates
I imagine we've all had to be a little more inventive with first
dates/meets due to the pandemic but I'm curious as to what your most
unconventional date has been; past or present.
Mine was taking someone ice climbing (pre pandemic) but I have been known
to meet someone in a supermarket late at night as they were coming off a
work shift.
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Lucky One 0001 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 10:09PM
OrientalAngel80 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 05:28PM
I'll take note and remember that.....😁
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1358651 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 07:02PM
Qetesh- I agree with u. Had the same thoughts but it depends on ur chemistry and understanding! Sometimes it just clicks. The other one spent 5 months impressing me whilst stuck in lockdown and eventually fizzled out for no reason and then he is back here again! So there is no sure shot in any strategy!
There is no wedding happening here. As long both understand each other and demands each other time without sex, I think it’s worth a shot!
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1386735 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:46PM
I really don’t judge people here, if you want to have sex after you’ve met someone after 5 mins then feel free, but I would think if we did a survey most of those affairs probably fizzled out pretty quickly.
I’m. Not a prude and am a very sexual Person, frequenting swingers clubs etc but.... I never have sex in a first meet. Come on where’s the chase in that? If you make it too easy for the guy he will soon loose interest
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1358651 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:05PM
‘Classycougar’ - my comment wasn’t at u at all! I used to think like u too but my IE has changed my point of view. As he is very caring so it’s the good balance of both mental and physical! My comment was more targeted towards my last IE who pretended to b gentleman and after 4 months of lockdown frustration, he took out on our relationship by lying about his wife and exited without a closure!
I agree with u too!x
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ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 05:57PM
OrientalAngel80
Exactly ... hence my use of the word "expect" which seem to have been overlooked.
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ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 05:44PM
I once had a first meet at a pub of his choosing ... he turned up after me and told me to get in his car ... when I wouldn't, he drove off without another word!
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1387952 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 05:40PM
In support for those women that may feel judged for 'putting out' on a first date... I've done that a few times. I'm not opposed to sex on first meets, it all depends on the chemistry, situation and mood. Have done in cars, hotels, outdoors, in their home (single guys)...
What I am against - just to make it clear - is the assumption that some men have; that a coffee meet automatically entitles them to sexual acts in their car, even when the chemistry is obviously not there.
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1387952 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 05:28PM
Lucky One 0001 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 04:32PM
"she got in and i very early on realised she was not going to be the one"
I would suggest that if she's bold enough to get in your car, she'll be resilient enough to be politely told that she's not for you. Would save time for both parties 😁
Classycougar - 04 Aug, 2020 - 04:58PM
No judgement implied or intended if the comments were levelled at me!
Just a personal comment that personal safety is critical for me!
Have fun whatever you choose to do on a first date..... but please be safe😘
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