Comments (185)

Deshilonda - 23 Jun, 2020 - 12:20PM

How you doing ;-)

Luvving Liaisons - 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:52AM

Being a man, I would compliment the lady on her honesty and would tell her total discretion towards her is guaranteed! Meeting in person requires honesty and personality- looks mean nothing! But romance and humour play a major part! Nothing crude or unwarranted!

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Mysterious 3.0 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:42AM

@Renaissance66

Had this just this morning....

"you asian...?"

?!?!?

1386174 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:17AM

Opening line least related to ANYTHING in the profile....
"Do you like anal....?"
I kid you not....

@PecanPie - is that the type of unintelligent approach you refer to.....?

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1328828 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 09:23AM

LondonParamour - 23 Jun, 2020 - 09:14AM

You’re not wrong, in the early days it can feel much like being a kiddy in a toy shop! Then you find that most of what’s on offer is in the sale for a good reason! I prefer to have a proper mooch to find that elusive good quality toy that lasts the distance. Beware of the glossy packaging though, some are counterfeit!

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1392198 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 09:14AM

I prefer to sit and wait to be approached. This is for the simple reason that women seem to get overwhelmed with messages when they first join, so yours has very little chance of being seen or replied to, however punchy, interesting, witty or well versed. After a while they've been bombarded enough, and if they still haven't found what they are looking for amongst all the dick pics (odd that), then in my experience (based on the couple of times I have been here before), they decide to take control and approach those profiles that appeal to them... If I like their profile too, then we chat and see where it goes...

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246345 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 12:59AM

@Holdfast

I second that emotion

PecanPie - 23 Jun, 2020 - 12:54AM

Be yourself with some added sense and couth..
There are some meaningless ice breakers that doesn’t even cut it!
To all the guys that send the “What brings you to IE” message, I hope you know this is not LinkedIn !

1332870 - 22 Jun, 2020 - 11:23PM

I think if someone messages you and is the complete opposite of what's in your profile, why reply.
If you're in London and want to meet someone local, why reply to someone from Scotland who clearly hasn't bothered reading your profile

Proper-gent - 22 Jun, 2020 - 02:22PM

Who knows
Witty
Brief
Detailed
Acknowledging profile content (actually reading)
Non of these appear to matter.
You are lucky to get an acknowledgement.

To all the ladies who deem is appropriate to ignore introduction messages I consider myself lucky to have dodged applied ignorance

A polite response should not be too much trouble.
And If the person becomes a pest there is a block button

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