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1272141 - 12 May, 2020 - 09:37AM

Whats difficult now?

MakeMe999 - 12 May, 2020 - 09:34AM

I. don't know if it gets easier. Living a double life is always complicated.
You just have to make sure the person who is sharing your adventure is worth ithe risk (be it long or short term) and on the same page
Just my own thoughts on it

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1383625 - 12 May, 2020 - 09:11AM

Hello. I am in the same boat. I am just starting this adventure and I don't know what to expect so I am just seeing how it goes. It took a long time for me to come to this decision and I am confident that it is the right one for me. I am determined to enjoy everything it brings but do expect a few hiccups on the way.

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1315970 - 12 May, 2020 - 09:08AM

Remember the 7 P's - Prior proper planning prevents a p ***s poor performance, visualise how an affair will affect your emotions, stress levels, time management ability to focus on work and then decide is it worth it. This will help you crystallise what you want and how you want your affair to be. Compartmentalisation helps. i.e. agree to only contact between specific hours. If its done right its easy the Rubicon has already been crossed if you are on here......

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SAYSomething x - 12 May, 2020 - 09:02AM

Simply based on personal experience, I've learnt to compartmentalise, I feel like my life away from my husband is mine to enjoy and I don't see the need to share that part of my life anyway. It's almost like being two different people, and actually in the long run it has made me happier in all aspects of my life. How can something that makes you a happier person be wrong?

This is right for me. It may seem a little nerve wracking starting out, but trust me it does get easier to the point that it is easy.

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