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adambhayat - 12 May, 2020 - 11:15AM

We are all here for the same reasons... Get over it.....

adambhayat - 12 May, 2020 - 11:08AM

Hello Wendyforwooing

Interesting reply, I think your over complicating it. We all want someone we click with, attracted to and want to escape with. We are not looking for love/marriage children etc.

Best Route - 12 May, 2020 - 11:08AM

What would you like to get easier? Emotional guilt, fear or physical capability ie: excuses etc?

I guess all will depend if this is the right path to make your life better. Also, be selfish... make sure it is what you want and need, don't risk it and waste time with a "maybe".

Ohhh ps: don't think because you are a cheater, that it makes you a bad person... and the wife or husband at home that they are 100% sure doesn't cheat, thinks the same about the person you may be considering having an affair with.

1373861 - 12 May, 2020 - 10:58AM

Love, life and sex is like a drug. You need this to feel alive and will do whatever is needed to keep the smile on your face alive. Guilt will soon be replaced with the addictive feeling of being wanted.

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adambhayat - 12 May, 2020 - 10:57AM

It's easy but finding a like minded partner in crime is the hard bit. Ie has many disillusionals

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1367490 - 12 May, 2020 - 10:44AM

No

1367490 - 12 May, 2020 - 10:43AM

Just remember why you wanted the affair and listen to Bastille lyrics to 'Another Place'
So don't make promises to me that you're gonna break
We only ever wanted one thing from this
Don't paint wonderful lies on me that wash away
We only ever wanted one thing from this
Oh, in another place
In another time, what could we have been?
Oh, in another place
In another time, what could we have been?

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1383195 - 12 May, 2020 - 10:08AM

To answer the question it is a yes and no.... The first time is hard because logistics and emotions have to be worked through.... You also have to filter out the things you definitely DON'T want in a prospective connection, which of course also depends on what you yourself are looking for....

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1376887 - 12 May, 2020 - 10:01AM

It shouldn’t be easy. You have to keep on your toes, so you make sure no-one suspects an affair. Sex and love can be compartmentalised. Set your ground rules and stick to them. A great affair can enhance your life.

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Chelseaguy12 - 12 May, 2020 - 09:41AM

the first time is the hardest. once youve done it guilt goes, you realise how much fun you and you ask yourself why you didnt do it years ago!