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1377030 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 05:09PM

When someone on IE pays attention to you and flirts with you, I find it gives me a spring in my step (and a raging erection half the time...ngl 🤦‍♂️) which motivates me to get out on that run or get that workout done.

The irony is that feeling good about yourself - because of that persons desire for you - makes you feel more confident about yourself.. and that self-confidence (not to be confused with arrogance) is an attractive quality in and of itself.

In short.. being desired can trigger lifestyle changes that in turn make you more desirable.

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Blueeyes83 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 05:04PM

I’m actually single. I want someone to desire me but not the drama of a relationship so what better man to have than one that doesn’t want to fully commit to you 😂
It’s lovely being told your attractive and someone would risk what they have to have a meet with you, that makes me feel powerful

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cokee12 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 05:02PM

Absolutely not as you become aware over time that you are not all things to all women - desirability for me is both mental and physical.....not necessarily in equilibrium...

1367118 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:56PM

I came on here on a whim really same as most people marriage gone stale I've met someone on here who in a million years I would not think would be attracted to me but were really hit it off...we haven't met yet but only because of lockdown but that's given us more time to get to know each other beforehand it's really boosted my confidence and actually outlook on life so if that's how we view increasing our own desirability it's a big yes from me

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removalizer - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:47PM

But then you ladies get a boost every day from all the messages you get from us guys doing all the leg work ?

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AAGilfan - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:45PM

Suzanna F..... if you are struggling with grey knockers I suggest you go up a couple of cup sizes Or maybe get straight round to Rigby & Peller once lockdown has finished - if it was good enough for the Queen then it should be good enough for anyone..... 😂😂 Although I think I read somewhere that M'aam had fired them for being indiscreet

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1357867 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:44PM

To feel wanted and 10ft tall. Makes you feel confident which makes you attractive... I’ve found I get more smiles from guys as I’m feeling good about myself. So it’s a win win all round

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Simplypete999 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM

Hi, my first time on here ‘Hello’

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1376887 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:38PM

@lillib you are right that some people are mean. It’s not a dating site, but it is for illicit encounters which to me is an affair, not a one off encounter in a supermarket car park.

I had a first message today asking if I wanted to join a 3sum or 4sum. How’s that an IE?

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1359558 - 30 Apr, 2020 - 04:34PM

For me having the odd affair wasn't about feeling more desirable at all....it was more about coping with the lack of intimacy in my marriage which I wasn't able to do anything about. We had become just very good friends with kids to look after.... and not lovers.
IE and introduction sites like it help you find someone in a similar position who is not necessarily looking for the full relationship thing but a more a FWB.

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