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nexxus
49, Bournemouth
Married,
Athletic body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for:
Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes
Caucasian/White, Non-Smoker, Light / Social Drinker
Occupation:
Financial Services
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:
Brown
Hair Colour:
Black
Religion:
Agnostic/None
Looking for Female between the ages of 21 and 49
Star Sign:
Libra
Last Active: Within 3 Hours
About Me:
Professional, fit, healthy, sane and solvent (just about, despite best efforts). Kind, polite, happy and sensual - on balance, I'm a nice guy. Once described as "annoyingly good looking" (but never heard from her again, so your mileage may vary).
Married with a small family, I'm still a hopeless romantic - although a very sexual person with a bit of spice to my vanilla. I love the summer outdoors - the beach at sunrise and warm hot nights. Pubs and people, solace and quiet. Winter nights in, and a decent box set. Good wine (just to set expectations... £7.99 from One Stop, not the £4.99 own brand) and good company.
Like most here, somehow, we stopped being lovers, and settled for friends. Maybe even just co-parents. And whilst it all works perfectly for family life (which I wouldn't change for the world), I need that spark, that connection, and that intimacy back. I'm looking for one person, someone I can laugh with, communicate with, and play with.
I work in front of screens, and so like to spend a lot of my spare time moving and keeping active. I'm in the gym when I can, although by no means a preener, and like to keep fit with anything from boxing to hiking, and especially anything on the water.
I'm discreet, respectful, understanding of boundaries and trustworthy.
Ideal Partner:
You'll probably be local to me, so Bournemouth/Poole, or surrounding areas. Married/attached with kids, and lacking the attention/intimacy/connection at home, you're looking for someone in the same position as you.
You might be slim, athletic, or just refreshingly normal with curves in the right places. Active in some form or another though, we may hook up for an early morning beach walk or a hot summers day kayak/SUP.
You are pretty, but not consciously so. A tomboy maybe, and certainly a jeans and t shirt girl more than a ballgown and tiara lady. Clever, funny, sassy, confident and happy in your own skin. You're sexy and flirty, and far from being vanilla, you have an inquisitive, fun, adventurous, maybe borderline kinky nature in bed - although it's something I would never know from the outside, where it looks like butter wouldn't melt.
You may have done this before (but not loads), know the game, and are discreet - not wanting to change anyones situation. You wont fall in love with me any more than I will with you, but you want friendship and companionship as much as the (great) sex we'll be having in stolen days and evenings away.
I appreciate this is really very detailed, and makes me sound like a bit of a dick. But you'll understand that I've just been here enough, and had enough failed starts to know what works for me, (and trying to save everyone the pain of talking about their pets for three days first). Underneath, you'll really be grinning that it describes you so accurately.
All that said, what really counts is that something about you will be different. And I'll fucking love it. And I can't wait to meet you.
Other Interests:
Cars / Motorcycles, Billiards / Pool / Darts, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Boxing / Wrestling, Gym / Aerobics, Martial Arts, Sailing / Boating, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema
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