Pandemon

About Me:

Here for the usual reasons. I won’t bore you with rehearsing them. I’ve done this successfully before.

I’m no Chris Hemsworth. It’s not likely I’ll tower over you. I can almost certainly bench press you, however 😊 – I’m very fit, trim and strong with a fighter’s stamina. Not looking for anything like a ‘soul mate’ but I am looking for a woman with soul.

Be warned, I’m priapic and passionate. I have the confidence and experience to consistently make you squirt stars and secrets everywhere. I know you will enjoy me physically. You ladies fascinate me with your ability to just endlessly soak up pleasure like a sponge. Though it all begins and ends with kissing (amazing how that act alone conveys so much) and I’m quite partial to the tease and the ever heightening tension…

There’s more to a fulfilling affair than the raw physicality though – we get into one another’s heads – give eachother ‘good head’ in more than one sense of the meaning as a friend once expressed it to me. The intensity of the physical unions is largely determined by placing both of us in the most intense and private space known only to the two of you, secreted away from the rest of the world.

I’m regularly in London and often overnight. Open a regular affair with one person who is either in London regularly or in the Sussex or Kent areas. Discreet communications in between also to maintain the fun…

Ideal Partner:

What I’m *positively* looking for…

Ideally done this before. If you haven’t you need to know what you want (the men here can’t fix that for you) and have already settled this is something you definitely want to commit to in your mind, heart…and loins.

Whilst I have a general preference for curvier women, it’s only a general predilection and certainly not a dealbreaker (or maker). What IS important to me is who and *how* you are. I’m deeply attracted to spirit, creativity, passion, intelligence and imagination. And these characteristics can express themselves in many ways I find appealing….perhaps you’re a bookish type with a passion for literature. You could be gloriously spiritual (though hopefully not a nun). A lover of nature maybe. Someone who is enthused by performing and expressing herself. A creative who tinkers and plays? Or maybe you’re adventurous and just wanting to test a push a few limits here and there…

What I’m *not* looking for:

- Ego boosters. If you’re looking for a modest ego boost I’m sure a quick trip to the local pub whilst flashing some leg will get you what you need instead of wasting your time and mine here.

- Long laundry lists. Usually bizarrely specific, physically. As if you’re attempting to recreate a specific peak sexual experience. An affair site isn’t the best for you. There are however sites where you can meet the specific dimensions and colourings you require, with gentlemen willing to rent their gonads out to you for a fee.

- Gold-diggers. There seem to be a few of you here and you’re quite easy to spot. I’m solvent. I’m also not a charity. And, again for you – there are dedicated sites for this need…

- Timewasters. Accounts for a good 50% of interactions on here. I’ve found ironically that bringing this up at the start is often a waste of time, so now its more of a notice that if I get warning signs (god knows I’ve seen enough examples now) you’re going to be a timewaster I’m likely to cut our interaction short.

- Looking for ‘spark’ but not knowing exactly what that is. Some women appear to be here looking for a second husband; to recreate the completely random and arbitrary combination of circumstances and characteristics that gave you your first honeymoon period. I don’t have time or energy to help you figure out what you want if you don’t already know.

As for the rest of you - Dreamers, Singers, Mystics and Makers come ye come often 😊

Other Interests:

Music - Rock, Athletics

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