Health condition
I have been diagnosed with osteoporosis and am at times in pain. But……. I still have the desires and urges of many woman who loves spontaneity and lust. How easy is it to find an IE who is open to this and at what point do i tell them that I’m not going to be swinging from the lampshade and may need some imagination from us both?
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Paula99 - 13 Jun, 2025 - 04:43PM
Davidnormal…
As funny as it seems but if you have a problem with your joints ( not the magic woodbines) then experiencing the ‘endorphine rush’ does have an good effect on your joints…you will discover the pain is diminishing so maybe the answer to the ‘stiffness’ is sex ….unfortunately the pain does return and you are back on the zapain and ibuprofen gel ….hey look at it positively you did get some pain relief …he got his pain relief …. back on the old Zimmer frame and pencil in another date 😂😂😂
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1775591 - 13 Jun, 2025 - 03:26PM
Don't let it hold you back. I think most men would be understanding and make allowances. And if they don't they're probably not worth bothering with anyway. My last lover developed a crippling joint disease where she was in a lot of pain and had trouble using her legs. I admit it was a shock when she arrived at the hotel with a zimmer frame (she was 50) but she stayed the night and we had a nice time. She said she felt better the next morning than she had in weeks. It wasn't the illness that ended things but the 200 miles distance between us. So don't worry and don't let it stop you doing things.
Black Gent - 08 Jun, 2025 - 08:10AM
As soon as possible. If he has issues then just yell "Next!". life is too short for BS.
1790942 - 07 Jun, 2025 - 08:03PM
I prefer not to see any condition as a negative, if you are going to be with someone find and promote something positive, get creative and imaginative, be spontaneous but also be gentle
1782658 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 07:59PM
Osteoporosis in itself is not painful. It only hurts if something breaks..so suggest getting your knees behind your ears would probably not be a great idea :-)
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Doubleohseven - 30 May, 2025 - 10:54PM
Chandeliers are not safe to swing or hang from.
Only excercise bars and rings for me.
And yes I am over 50.
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UnconventionalMess - 30 May, 2025 - 10:51PM
I think it depends in the condition but definately good to let them know what to expect.
However on the subject of health conditions I think any potential stds or stis def need raising as even with protection some can be shared. Trust me I came close,thankfully I'm was GUM medic and was able to spot before potentially ruining any other dalliances!
Dave 2025 - 28 May, 2025 - 03:03PM
I'm over 60 please don't right us off , I can certainly swing like Tarzan and chandeliers are a doddle . Still looking for my Jane , I'd best go to spec savers again 😂😂
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Pete likes wine - 27 May, 2025 - 08:40PM
Honesty is best - a good IE partner will respect that honesty and have empathy.
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Paula99 - 27 May, 2025 - 06:38PM
I doubt that most guys over the age of 50 could swing from anything never mind a chandelier ….come on guys you’re not 20 years old …broken bones will get you to the local A n E not laid …🤨
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