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Spicy Asian - 23 Nov, 2024 - 09:52AM

I'm rubbish at lying, if I had to make up weird excuses I'd easily get caught - but I'm lucky my husband ends up working away for weeks at a time, so I just have to wait for that, then there's no stress.

Paula99 - 23 Nov, 2024 - 06:12AM

Anna and her king …

Perfect analogy…

You shouldn’t have to make excuses for your lifestyle..everything in plain sight …

No other way ….sadly

Anna and her King - 22 Nov, 2024 - 11:14PM

Clickable Connection - 22 Nov, 2024 - 10:40PM

Agree.
Need to already be able to accommodate an affair as part of your lifestyle/work pattern so things do not look out of the ordinary at all.

Clickable Connection - 22 Nov, 2024 - 10:40PM

Ciao1970 - no offence mate , but saying you've fallen asleep on the sofa , is pretty lame excuse - not surprised you got found out.

In my book , in order to have an affair, you need to have the space and flexibility to do so, and be able to fit it in with your life - whatever that looks like for you. If you don't (and most don't) , that's when you have to make up excuses , and perhaps run the risk of getting caught out.

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1711608 - 22 Nov, 2024 - 10:13PM

Keeping it truthful helps. (Going out to x with friends) but instead going with someone else.. providing you have friends base covered

DeeperThings - 22 Nov, 2024 - 07:59PM

I work away a lot. It’s quite easy. I don’t feel like it’s cheating, she broke our marriage vows by her adultery. Just enjoying myself while divorce goes through

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Ciao1970 - 22 Nov, 2024 - 06:48PM

I think a lot of people on here are kidding themselves that they think they're "getting away with it". If you've been together for a number of years, your partner will have a pretty good idea that the excuses you're making are fictitious, but they've just chosen not to do anything about it.
The last excuse I gave was to say that i'd fallen asleep on the sofa at 8pm and couldn't reply to her message.......the next time we met, she basically told me I was lying and that our relationship was over!.........3 months later were still together lol.

Clickable Connection - 22 Nov, 2024 - 05:14PM

I try not to come up with excuses, or get myself into a situation where I need to.

Like Life is a beech said , keep it simple and based on actual truths , that way if asked you don't feel you need to come up with an excuse.

I do feel some folks over complicate this stuff abit lol

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marklondonengland - 22 Nov, 2024 - 02:25PM

There is a pub that I know with a red phone box inside. There is no phone inside the phone box, just a series of buttons marked - OFFICE, SHOPPING, STREET ... you press the button and it fills the phone box with that background sound so you can make a call on your mobile...

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blueeyed_man - 22 Nov, 2024 - 12:11PM

I need someone to arrange meets with first! Then I'll look forward to creating cover... but working away will be relatively easy.