Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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Tallhandsomecapable - 26 Jun, 2025 - 09:24AM
You should be honest about your situation and what you're looking for.
Firstly, it'll avoid anyone feeling misled should they get involved.
Secondly, it'll attract people who are looking for similar things to you. Rare as they might be, it's better to open to find the right person in the right situation with the right wants and need for both of you.
Paula99 - 24 Jun, 2025 - 12:00PM
Sadly …. It does make everything complicated…
The third party in this doesn’t know the dynamic in your relationship and that affects people in different ways ..
Emotions are fickle and can easily become toxic ….I would never get involved in this kind of situation no matter how much I liked the couple in question …
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1794174 - 23 Jun, 2025 - 11:42PM
If you’re good looking then state it in your profile.
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Kisses The Texture Of Velvet - 23 Jun, 2025 - 07:28PM
I would be pleased a chap has his wife's agreement because it would make meeting up easier.
WaitingtobeFound - 23 Jun, 2025 - 07:11PM
No, it's just that ladies on any dating sites get more attention than men!
Bikerdude69 - 23 Jun, 2025 - 03:17PM
Im curious if your wife's looker i. Might drop her a message... 😁
YourSecretLover - 23 Jun, 2025 - 02:39PM
The woman always get more attention than the men. It's like honey to a bee.
You should be as open and honest as you want to be, I think honesty shines through on a profile.
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Recliff42 - 23 Jun, 2025 - 02:14PM
It seems to me that you are taking an honest approach in your profile and i would hope that others appreciate this.
A quetsion to think on is quantity or quality important? Lots of attention might be off putting and hard for her to find someone worth connecting with, equally you may find just one perfect playmate.
I know for me, I only wish to encounter one lady, there is a lot to be said about the right connection.
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LadyDe - 23 Jun, 2025 - 09:06AM
As I lot of you know already.. I’m in an Open Marriage. It’s not all ‘rose tinted glasses’ there have been times when ones had a good thing and another nothing for a while, ones had more freedom of meets, where the other had limited meets etc etc .. the most important thing to remember is not to let your real marriage slip.. there have been times when I’ve taken it too far and gone out for a meet in all the sexy seductive clothing (different for men as he just wears trousers/shirt etc) and he’s felt jealous, so a reign that in and actually now have a bit of a separate wardrobe… but without a doubt the life style has improved our marriage, monogamy for us isn’t natural… but the quick answer is yes to say you are as it shows you have freedom in meets etc ..
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