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Forlorn66 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:15AM

I'll admit that I use this term quite often but it's a genuine statement as I have nothing to hide and I really don't have an issue answering personal questions. I'm on here to find something special and I plan on being completely open.

Thankfully, it hasn't been a conversation ender but it may be time to rethink it's use if it has this sort of reaction. I'm new here so all of this helps me a lot.

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BerkshireBiker - 03 Jan, 2025 - 10:01AM

Usually this strikes me as things are stalling or a last chance to maintain momentum. Can be al sliding doors moment that takes things swiftly in a different direction.

Not my favoured period as predominantly it means things aren’t going anywhere useful.

Paula99 - 02 Jan, 2025 - 04:11PM

If you write your profile in a certain way then you can avoid most of the ‘ask me anything’ bridge ..this is the nature of what we do …but to be fair years ago I was on another website and I had set my filters and low and behold this guy messaged me ….outside of my filters and he became my very first affair …so don’t be quick to diss the guys …some need to get out of their comfort zone….there is no need to be rude …just be direct 👍

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Delicious Chaos - 02 Jan, 2025 - 04:06PM

Enigma
Why on earth would you move off here without establishing the basics first

Location, what they are looking for, what do they look like, what they can commit. Until I have that info I just won’t waste my time going off here

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Happy Henry - 02 Jan, 2025 - 12:44PM

I've found that the rhythm of a conversation is much more important than the subject matter .. sometimes the flow is quick, and intense and information is exchanged about all sorts of things .. leading to an exchange of pws and hopefully then on to another medium. Others can be slow, maybe over days, before building up speed to the same point of pw exchange. Either there is rapport or there isn't - regardless of the speed of flow - and if it's there then usually most questions are asked and answered before the decision to move on is reached.

Enigma.. - 25 Jul, 2024 - 08:09AM

@Paula99
@Funguy77

Might be harsh but it’s the truth.

I’ve had some really interesting and exciting conversations on the site.
Some have gotten as far as moving onto Telegram and even arranging a date.
But… that’s when the conversations usually comes to a grinding halt.
Lack of availability and clashing schedules.

That’s if they haven’t disappeared before then 👻 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.

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Funguy77 - 24 Jul, 2024 - 09:50PM

@ Paula99 - 24 Jul, 2024 - 07:41PM

Man that’s harsh lol

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WhiteKnight_99 - 24 Jul, 2024 - 07:51PM

Dont see any problem with this question...but then I'm not short of things to ask 😅. My verbosity puts some off..but that is fine as I'm trying to find someone equally happy as me to do textual and verbal sparring. Silent types not my thing 🤗

Paula99 - 24 Jul, 2024 - 07:41PM

Urban dictionary version has a slightly more accurate definition…

A tool used to make people listen how horrible your sad excuse for a life is …sometimes used as a torture device for terrorists…😂

Funguy77 - 24 Jul, 2024 - 05:30PM

webster dictionary Defines conversation (noun)

: oral exchange of sentiments, observations, opinions, or ideas
… we had talk enough but no conversation; there was nothing discussed.
—Samuel Johnson


Nothing More to Say Really lol

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