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Jack425 - 27 Dec, 2024 - 02:53AM

@moreandmore yes

Doubleohseven - 26 Dec, 2024 - 06:48PM

It's not true that ladies routinely get hundreds of messages... They do so only in their first couple of weeks, then messages tail off. By the time they have been here 10 years, only the rawest male recruits haven't learnt to stay clear from them [forum members excepted].
Moreover, as I said elsewhere, I personally find that for the specific category of ladies I am attracted to, the odds are in favour of men, not women.
Anyway, back to the OP: it's not at all difficult to read "between the lines" when there's only a 1-line answer that is monosyllabic, inane or plain lazy. I always find that a great help in focusing on the 10% of ladies that are funny, smart and oozing personality. For those, you just need to be the same, and you'll find out quickly if they are interested - and vice versa.

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Paula99 - 23 Dec, 2024 - 07:53PM

Tut Tut @ Tallandspicy..

There is one thing I do know…. throwing your toys out of the pram doesn’t bode well ..

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Tallandspicy - 23 Dec, 2024 - 05:06PM

@Paulaa99

Stick to what you know best……..not very much!

Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2024 - 03:58PM

Making excuses like women getting more messages and looking for Mr Perfect tells me a lot about the person behind the post …

As I said before no one likes a winger ..🙄

Three Little Words - 20 Dec, 2024 - 03:03PM

@TallAndSpicy

Yes, this happens to me as well. More than a few times I’ve had a couple of nice messages from a lady only for them to go suddenly quiet or just say “Sorry you’re not my type” and then blocked me to stop any further discussion.

Roll with the punches.

Tallandspicy - 20 Dec, 2024 - 01:11PM

Believe me it’s difficult for us men. You engage in what you think is interesting conversation, only to find that one wrong word, or a comment that has been misconstrued, and BANG…….the conversation is over! And the reason?…….Ladies receive probably 1000% more messages than men do…….so they just move on to try and find “Mr Perfect”………..and ladies if you hadn’t already realised, he doesn’t exist! 🧐

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marklondonengland - 20 Dec, 2024 - 12:30PM

It's almost as if some people need a manual on how to start a conversation or how to be interesting...

Three Little Words - 20 Dec, 2024 - 12:05PM

If a woman asks questions, shows an interest and generally talks in a way that keeps the conversation flowing then I consider that she’s interested.

If these replies are closed in nature and don’t really lead anywhere then I know she’s just answering out of politeness or isn’t interested.

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Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2024 - 02:47PM

Ooops …wound up …