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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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Gunther73 - 11 May, 2024 - 06:59PM

If we’re going to want or need lube, I’m happy to bring lube. I think I’ll bring some anyway just in case now 🤣!
If you need a specific lube you’ll need to communicate that to me in advance. It’s pretty rare to have an allergy to generic lube so for general purposes it will be ok.

Lube that is not required is a happy bonus!


Old Sapper - 11 May, 2024 - 06:33PM

Not at all.
In the past I've found hotel hand lotion more than satisfactory!


Marlen - 06 May, 2024 - 04:13PM

From a male perspective, it depends on the situation.....I wouldn't want to slide off the bed🤣. Ignoring hygiene issues and allergies, there could be some concern that the foreplay wasn't up to scratch (no pun intended) if assistance was required to make things easier. Communication is key. Also, some activities need lubricant, if that's what you like. Better to be prepared than have two frustrated people in the room!

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sexysbbw - 06 May, 2024 - 03:12PM

No never been offended. Lube is so good to used and if it makes things easy then why not


Little miss crazy - 30 Apr, 2024 - 01:50AM

Or when our buttons aren't turned on right. Age aint shit when your sexual partner knows wat there doing lol x

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Ashton373 - 28 Apr, 2024 - 08:56AM

Not in the slightest. I’d see as additional sexy play


Bacchus111 - 27 Apr, 2024 - 09:45AM

@naughty_bgirl you e got me intreaged, what do you include on your shopping list.


Paula99 - 27 Apr, 2024 - 09:36AM

If you are going to take a ‘hotel kit ‘ then be mindful of the products you intend to use ..don’t forget to keep your ‘toys’ in an appropriate container and always use sanitiser to keep them germ free..
For those of you who are sensitive in certain areas then it can make your experience a UTI nightmare..
Every woman is different and one product may work for one but not another …so ladies choose your own lubrication…

WD40 might be an option for my knees😂

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naughty_bgirl - 27 Apr, 2024 - 09:09AM

Clear communication is all it takes! I like lube, but it has to be specific. I give my meets a specific shopping list! There's no one answer to this because every woman is different 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Beckysharp - 26 Apr, 2024 - 01:38PM

Totally agree Enigmatic lady. If a guy brought lube or a hotel kit I’d be running away so fast 😂

But it’s an odd question. A woman asking men if they are offended or have used lube?!

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