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How to suppress the excitement?

I've met someone and we're a great match. We've been sneaking off to see each other and getting a buzz from the adrenaline. My question is, how do you suppress the excitement when you're at home? I get butterflies just from a text message and I'm walking around like a grinning idiot half the time. How do you tone down the glow up?

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Beckysharp - 03 May, 2024 - 02:12PM

That sounds like my version of a perfect first meet- enjoy the temptress!!!


The Temptress - 03 May, 2024 - 01:51PM

Finally got to meet my guy. The most important part was our dogs got on. We spent a wonderful afternoon, hiking the hills near where we live, stopping for a nice cuppa with some biscuits (mine being builders, his being hot water with a selection of different teas as he wasn't sure what I would like, so cute). Both agreed on chocolate hob nobs and scotch eggs. Our first sexual encounter will be at his secret place and I hope it is a start to a great adventure, I have high hopes, hope I am not proved wrong. We both love the great outdoors so have agreed to meet for walks/hikes/trail running in between our sexual encounters. We live close but not in each other's pockets so fingers crossed great things to follow. Now how to keep that grin off my face.

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Db360k - 22 Apr, 2024 - 07:59AM

I’d be very careful . But it’s down to how astute your home partner is , only you will know this . Men are actually far more observant than many think , it might come down to whether they are bothered or not!

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Unsurebutdetermined - 18 Apr, 2024 - 11:33PM

Evening all. In fairness, and certainly in my experience, the excitement helps to make the mundane less mundane, the frustrating, less frustrating, and the comfort of knowing that there’s someone out there that yearns to share those stolen few hours away from normality in the throes of passion, just makes everything so much less crap. Smiling that knowing smile to yourself, awaiting that next message, that next cheeky picture, it just gives balance to what invariably has become a shit situation that has led to being here in the first place x

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Ciao1970 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 07:09PM

I realised my ex was cheating on me when I kept seeing new, more "exotic" and revealing underwear on the line. I didn't ask her why she had bought them......I already knew!
next thing I did was go buy myself some Calvin Klein briefs lol!

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Paula99 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 06:11PM

Everything must be done in plain sight…🤔

Think Doctor Harold Shipman everyone he murdered was all done in the light of day …..( Thats not an excuse to start knocking your affairs 😂😂😂😂..)


Robert24 - 18 Apr, 2024 - 05:57PM

I think Paula has it right, just update the undies gradually , same as Exotic Orchid said, but have lots of fun

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The Temptress - 17 Apr, 2024 - 12:08PM

It can we quite hard keeping that smile off your face, especially when I get the "Good Morning" message.

Currently counting down the days and hours until our meet, weather is looking good. He is very good with his comms so far, we both have times when work restraints get in the way, but then we both make up for it. Fingers crossed we will have the same chemistry in real life that we have already.

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ExoticOrchid - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:23PM

NO - 09:13AM

Hide in plain sight ... buy a few and "flaunt" them openly ... leave the shopping bag and receipts where they can be seen.

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Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 06:17PM

My partner was fixing my chest of drawers a few weeks back and he said ..Are those pink undies for me ?
So I said No…they not your size 😂

He wouldn’t have noticed ….normally I tend to wear sports underwear but it’s the colour that sent him into the land of the horn …..🙄

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