Communication
I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice would be appreciated
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Return to Forever - 18 Nov, 2024 - 09:00PM
Ask your partner and see what they prefer? If they want Morning/Evening brief texts then do it..if not don't.
Basic Gold Rule. Unless it's a major emergency or you're both in the midst of a chat then just follow/reply to a message. Of course in the morning if you want to say hello then do so but don't pester if no come back...
Clickable Connection - 16 Nov, 2024 - 08:09PM
@Anna and her king - totally and 100% agree
Chat to her , match her energy, get to know when is good to message Vs not - just go with the flow.
Anna and her King - 16 Nov, 2024 - 01:17PM
I think both parties soon figure out each other’s schedules and availability so chat routine should naturally fall into place. If there is a real connection, comms between meets should not be a chore but something you look forward to.
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laugar164 - 16 Nov, 2024 - 12:35PM
Mellors4
I'd say ask the lady are agree how much and when , we all have an other life's that take up most of our time and with Most lady's running a household and a job their time to message may be limited , bombarding her with messages all the time will possibly put her off
Delicious Chaos - 13 Nov, 2024 - 08:48PM
ABronteSister
As EO said think outside the box, you like a profile you see on here ;-) then go between is what you need
It does work
AnAffairsAffair - 13 Nov, 2024 - 03:00PM
Match her energy, it's as simple as that. Of course having an idea of her daily routine helps to identify any deviation from patterns.
If she massages a lot and you're OK with that, follow suit, if it is less bit predictable times match that. And of course always ask what she prefers. If it's too much or too little for you then move on.
It's always an unexplained change of rhythm that signals an invitation to relinquish the relationship.
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