Comments (151)

1565974 - 10 Dec, 2022 - 11:31PM

Well depends profile impressive or person wonderful personality

Bukowski69 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 06:06PM

I am always impressed with a longer message and some references to me profile.

I hate what is your pw, ridiculously arrogant.

A gift is better than a vk.

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1471685 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 03:10PM

My ex partner (35 years ago) always started his chat up lines with “I suppose a fuck’s out of the question “. For every 20 face slaps, he got laid once.....

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1403475 - 25 Sep, 2020 - 02:15PM

Just be yourself and make sure you’ve read the profile and comment if you’ve got similar interest

Ade.mac2017 - 25 Sep, 2020 - 02:08PM

I get checked out a bit but that’s it. Something is scaring the ladies off. Am I ugly. Fuck knows. I’d love some pointers in the profile department. It comes down to how well you sell yourself, are you any god at it etc. It’s a shame because after my diabolical profile I’m actually god fun.

Ade.mac2017 - 23 Sep, 2020 - 08:51PM

Please do tell me. I’m not getting on to well here.

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Cherry_X - 05 Sep, 2020 - 03:24PM

And knowing whereabouts you're based and if you drive is handy too. First part of post code is very useful once you're comfortable disclosing. Helps for Google Maps.

Cherry_X - 05 Sep, 2020 - 03:22PM

For me, it would be something like:
"Hi, I like your profile.
I am able to meet [daytimes/evenings/weekends] once a [week/fortnight/month].
Let me know if you'd like my password."

**************

Delete options as applicable.

Then, once passwords are exchanged, progress to a video call and then a date.

That's just my subjective view based on the issues I'm having - guys just wanting to chat and not meet, only having daytime availability and assuming that I can bunk off working from home and being unable to meet with any regularity/frequency.

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1404098 - 02 Sep, 2020 - 12:22AM

From my limited experience so far your first messages need to be personalised. I’ve tried giving out password and holding it back. I think waiting on a courteous reply before giving the PW is the best option. It is frustrating when you do send a PW and get nothing back. Even a thanks but your not for me would be nice.

Maybe it’s me but I don’t seem to get many messages 😭

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1386735 - 22 Aug, 2020 - 03:08PM

Absolutely time to move on. Just admit defeat and all that 😁

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