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James with the bluest eyes - 12 May, 2024 - 08:33AM

It starts with the initial chat online, then when comfortable a first meet. In a place that you both fell comfortable.
The just be yourself and if the person your meeting looks fabulous, then tell them.
The first kiss is always special. Whether it is just a touch of the lips or a slightly longer and lingering touch that just for that moment lights that spark.
Then look into her eyes if they are alive and shining like yours then the connection is real.
Its all in the kiss and I for one love to kiss.

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The Temptress - 08 May, 2024 - 12:33PM

I guess I had what could be classed as a second date with my guy. Def not a traditional date, once again with our dogs in the great outdoors. We've both been busy and both felt we needed an escape. Nothing better than being out there getting rid of the cobwebs. No one around to see us either.

Do not think dating has to be traditional, go with what you feel comfortable with.

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Paula99 - 30 Apr, 2024 - 08:04AM

Gunther73…

Don’t take it personally…the interface will always change the words… it also deletes your old messages and it doesn’t always send the messages so Ghosting is not always the persons fault…yes there are plenty of keyboard warriors and dickheads but take it for what it is ..

Hope this helps 👍

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Gunther73 - 29 Apr, 2024 - 06:05PM

Yes indeed a thick skin is needed! Ghosting is a pretty common occurrence. It takes nothing to say one isn’t feeling the connection and they’re moving on- perhaps there should be a ghosting button that does this automatically - it doesn’t have to be called the ghosting button- could be the “moving on” button 🤣!

Most surprising was shared a password with someone I was getting on with, the system put in a capital at the beginning, and then I got told by the other person that the pw was incorrect and straight away they blocked me so I couldn’t even clarify it 😲.

Obviously there is enough bad behaviour to make people feel that it what hey have to do.

Ted.E.Bare - 29 Apr, 2024 - 10:03AM

Anyone is going to need a thick skin on this site, I’ve had some amazing chats, feel like we’re really connecting then… gone. Blank. “Deleted profile”, or ghosted.
I wouldn’t mind if they’d found someone and let you know but… then… it’s start again.
Also gotta love the profiles saying “make me laugh” and then give you monosyllabic answers. Best of luck is all I can say… :D

Gunther73 - 28 Apr, 2024 - 11:52AM

It’s really difficult if one describes themselves as “nice”.

Nice guys and nice women also have other attributes that they should highlight to make it easier to make one’s profile stand out more.

But I also get that being a nice bloke can also mean that it can be difficult to stay out of the friend zone- a trap that many of us nice bloke fell into when we were younger and dating.

So as I’m new to all this I can see why the OP has asked this but I don’t have any practical advice. I’m hoping that by being on here it is more obvious that I’m after more than a platonic relationship or a pen pal, but also look for people that I click with via chat first.

NinaOakley - 28 Apr, 2024 - 09:53AM

Remember the stakes are a lot higher now. People having affairs are risking their families and material security for the rest of their lives if they get caught.

Be respectful and honest and show you can be trusted.

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1575033 - 11 Mar, 2024 - 09:15PM

5 mins coffee meet is worth a years messaging.

FluffyClouds - 10 Feb, 2024 - 07:04PM

Matt James -

Chickz...chickz!? I despair sometimes...you seem to have corn, so you may find one 🐤

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Funguy77 - 10 Feb, 2024 - 05:52PM

@99

Why dose this remind me of that Sean from the original total recall 😂