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Paula99 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 02:13PM

What people don’t realise is ….their social media account will all be scrutinised..even if your accounts are locked they will discover through family/ friends …nothing is deleted or hidden permanently…you are leaving a footprint wherever you go..

Rule 99 😊

Gruagach - 09 Aug, 2025 - 01:16PM

Keep it behind closed doors. No PDA ever. Its ok to meet for a coffee or snacks, have an alibi in your pocket.

These people who post on their profiles about dinner, theatre dates, weekends away - what planet are they on?

laugar164 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 11:46AM

Paula 99 we had a very senior Excitive who had an affair with a women in the office when it was exposed because they was caught in the boardroom of all places after work the woman in question was paid if to leave the company rumor had it it was a very good offerer

But hers the sting in the tail her mother when to the annual AGM and challenged in public how he ruined her daughters life and career that was bad enough but he was a non Excitive member of M&S as well , yes you guessed right she when to their AGM as well

Never mind a woman sconed. Watch out for the mother
Keep your affairs separate from work rule no 99 in my rule book

Paula99 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 06:57AM

If had just clapped and sat down …no one would have noticed …It was just their reaction that give them away …..they could have been a couple of mates on a night out
BUT…
They were at a major event…..Irresponsible and reckless
Having an open affair at work puts pressure on your other employees…it creates favouritism and also resentment …you are asking your colleagues to lie for you ….also being ‘office gossip’ isn’t pleasant…If you are prepared to behave in this way …your respect WILL be denied….

Where I work it’s not tolerated anymore …you get demoted and moved to another position….as it should be 🤔

Quietstorm637 - 08 Aug, 2025 - 03:13PM

I think the viral reaction would have softened if he just owned it. Instead he came up with a scripted crappy response. Who knows whats going in in both these couples lives..but if you are not going to be discrete with your dates what do you expect??

SirrahNek - 08 Aug, 2025 - 03:02PM

Exactly this Fluffy Sunshine. Never run from the scene of the crime. It makes you look as guilty as hell. Stroll casually, and you’ll almost certainly get away with it.

Ahem. So I’ve heard.

JoseAp - 04 Aug, 2025 - 09:21AM

deep conversations, have a sense of humor, and aren't afraid to be yourself.

Fluffy Sunshine - 04 Aug, 2025 - 08:23AM

If they hadn’t reacted how they did then no one would have looked twice. The camera would just have panned to the next couple.

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ForbiddenDelightsX1 - 03 Aug, 2025 - 06:43PM

I guess having rules are one thing but there is only soo much you can do in terms of planning when out and about. Maybe stay away from areas and events that are too close to home. Also I think it’s hard to spot someone in the evening than during the day.

Dan5678 - 27 Jul, 2025 - 11:49AM

The best rule is 'cause no harm' - though as there's always a risk of that, perhaps better to say 'do whatever you can to cause no harm'

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