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Health condition

I have been diagnosed with osteoporosis and am at times in pain. But……. I still have the desires and urges of many woman who loves spontaneity and lust. How easy is it to find an IE who is open to this and at what point do i tell them that I’m not going to be swinging from the lampshade and may need some imagination from us both?
 

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Paula99 - 24 May, 2025 - 12:29PM

In the grand scheme of things ….it doesn’t matter what health condition you have ….you can only make that decision for yourself…maybe it’s time to bow 🙇‍♀️ out from the sex search…….??


Macebell - 24 May, 2025 - 12:21PM

I would say as a woman you won't have any problem finding an understanding partner. As a man however, if I mention my sciatica i'm immediately friend zoned for a younger model :)


FeldAii - 24 May, 2025 - 12:18AM

Looking for someone special


Life is a beach - 23 May, 2025 - 11:05PM

I am sorry you have been diagnosed with osteoporosis. I can not imagine what you are going through.
This doesn't stop you from finding a wonderful lover who will appreciate you for what you are.
Your beauty goes well beyond your illness 🤗

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Ian1123 - 23 May, 2025 - 08:49PM

and remember they are the lucky ones , we all come in different packaging


Ian1123 - 23 May, 2025 - 08:47PM

just be honest


FeldAii - 23 May, 2025 - 07:26PM

What’s good about that


Paula99 - 23 May, 2025 - 05:25AM

It is important that if you have a serious health condition then you be upfront about it ….sticking your head in the sand and hoping it will go away because your hormones are raging is ridiculous…..some medication can affect other parts ….beware what you are already taking then adding certain medication may put a strain on your heart …the OP has osteoporosis… while that is very debilitating it won’t kill you …
In my profession I can save your life but I am not supposed to be with you and I can’t risk getting caught in a compromising position…🫤.


Secret Victoria - 22 May, 2025 - 10:07PM

Being open and upfront is paramount when it comes to establishing a good relationship and health issues are so important to talk about. I have had affairs with two men who had type 2 diabetes. As most of us know that can cause erectile dysfunction. Man number one was very upfront about it from the onset and that led to many years of complete sexual and emotional satisfaction. Man number two didn't disclose this until after we went to bed together. Don't get me wrong, we had a great relationship but always the thing getting in the way for me wasn't the obvious but the fact that he didn't tell me.

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rarity23 - 22 May, 2025 - 05:40PM

I'd say if you have found someone genuine you have agreed to meet them either tell them just before you meet on the first date itself.

If they are genuine, they'll like you for you and not be bothered about the condition you have.

Hope you find your special man x

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