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Enigma.. - 03 May, 2025 - 02:55PM

@Doubleohseven

Lol….well exsqeeze me (excuse me…)
Did you swallow a dictionary for breakfast lol!?! (Ok… I’ve got a sarcastic/dry sense of humour 🤷🏼‍♀️)

I’m actually laughing here… (please everyone give the man!?! A round of applause 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️😉🤣)

Ok… (looks at her watch)

Not every woman judges males by their height (shocker)… and so nand so forth…. Blah, blah, blah 😴.

And yes… every women on this site knows she is is judged by her size, weight, looks etc…

And yet… males are still complaining why they can’t find anyone!?! 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️
Oh! Let’s blame it on the old females getting bombarded by messages “thang”… Again 😴.

Psst… Mr 007 if you know where all the men with personality, intelligence etc… are hiding out on this site… do tell.
I’d love to know… 🤷🏼‍♀️😉😮

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tmn2024 - 03 May, 2025 - 02:43PM

@bigbandito26:

There's absolutely no question that women are drawn to tall men. There's no need to even ask women if it's true, because as a short ass 5'6" man, I can tell you in a heartbeat that they're not drawn to me!

Faramir791 - 03 May, 2025 - 02:32PM

This thread is one of the few worth reading. Some laugh out loud comments. Chaps, I’ve googled “how can I increase my height over 50” and apparently we all need to get down to Yoga and Pilates classes. Already booked one 😂

bigbandito26 - 03 May, 2025 - 01:44PM

To answer the forum topic "Male height one of the key physical discriminators for women?"

The answer is Yes. Women are attracted o tall men, thinking they are very well endowed or shows as a strength.

Be honest ladies, do you not agree?

SirrahNek - 03 May, 2025 - 01:13PM

Okay. I wasn’t going to say anything - but if we’re grumbling then I’m going to. Unrealistic expectations, and this is directed at some of the chaps on the forums. This frankly bloody odd idea that you need ‘value for money’. If this is you, give your head a wobble. I know it can seem expensive - but remind yourself that you are not here to buy anyone. No one here is bought or sold. Enjoy the company, on the forums and in the messages, and if it leads to something more then happy days. But ‘something more’ is not guaranteed - and shouldn’t be expected.

Also, if no one is interested in you then perhaps the problem isn’t with all the women here. Sorry to be blunt. Revise your profile. Make an effort. Engage on the forums. Be honest. There’s someone for everyone. And remember - you’re not +1. You’re +2. You could be dropped at any time, and that’s fine too.

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Doubleohseven - 03 May, 2025 - 01:05PM

[cont] On IE, we struggle with the same conflict between the noble image of ourselves we hold and cherish, and our real self. Surely women should not care about height! Surely men should not care about dress size! Shouldn't it all be about connection, personality, inner beauty, etc? We claim so. But it isn't.

If your inner self is beautiful, but your outer self is shabby, uncared, etc - tough luck. St Peter will welcome you into Heaven one day, but your dating life on earth will be Hell.

Men, listen up: [on average] women care about your height. Shocker!
Women, listen up: [on average] men care about your width. Shocker!

Advice for men: don't whine if you are asked about your height
Advice for women: don't whine if you are asked about your dress size. The guy is being considerate enough not to ask you about your waist circumference, in cm [which is what you routinely do with men's height]
Good news for men with personality, humour etc: demand / supply balance is actually in your favour. Use it.

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Doubleohseven - 03 May, 2025 - 12:47PM

IE is a subset of our world. And, as we live in the most unbelievably hypocritical society in human history (oh yes, more so than the Victorians), it's not surprising that hypocrisy trickles down in our debates here.

If you disagree with this societal premise, consider the OP statement: "We all have our preferences and should be able to state them freely, without judgement".
I believe that most liberal people would say "Yes! As long as your preferences don't hurt anyone etc etc, you should be able to state them without judgment "

But what if you - hypothetically - told the same people the following:
"...oh, and I like Korean women because they seem so naturally submissive" Then the supposedly non-judging crowd would promptly add "...well then you are a male chauvinist"
"...oh, and I don't happen to find most black women attractive" "...well then you are a chauvinist bigot"
"...oh, and as a man in my 50s I find girls of 25 attractive" "...well then you are a creep too"
[cont]

Enigma.. - 03 May, 2025 - 12:45PM

@Peaches1

There’s a male member up here in Scotland who has been 50 for a few years 🤣😂.

I’m so tempted to send him a message…

Please tell me…
Have you borrowed Dr WHO’s Tardis??
Or perhaps discovered The fountain of Youth??
Or perhaps developed the ability to Time Travel… no 😉🤔🤷🏼‍♀️

Well please how you are still 50 five years later 😏.
And still have the same photo on your profile?? 🙄🤔🤣

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Peaches1 - 03 May, 2025 - 12:31PM

Enigma

The good old age lie eh!

I was chatting to someone last week who was 50, he's 45 on his profile this week! Give it a month and he'll probably drop another 10yrs off. Better than botox this site for youthfulness 😂

smartypants12345 - 03 May, 2025 - 12:27PM

We know what we like in a person we find attractive. Shouldn’t be ashamed or over- polite to say, ‘Thanks, but you’re not my type’.
I’d rather have, ‘ sorry, but you’re too sexy for me’ than ghosting or lies like ‘ you’re top of my list’.

Failing that, give me a mean bitch ex circus dwarf with bunny boiling tendencies.