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1738521 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 08:51PM

To put it simple, a women who gives me peace

Jonno1570 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 02:22PM

There has to be a connection no doubt.

I’m new on here and struggling where to pitch the opening message. Clearly you don’t go in all hung ho but being pleasant initially seems to get no response either!

A woman that doesn’t just reply with half a dozen words would be attractive for a start 😂

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justme272 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 02:22PM

This is quiet a open question as I'd go as far as to say everyone is different, for me personally I have to be attracted to the person, so looks are the first thing, that can be made up of several things, clothes, make, figure. But I even if I like teh looks for me, I'm not going to want to jump into bed with a piece of wood, I want a connection, so personality plays a big part.

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 01:28PM

I have so heard all these before ... yawn! 🤭

ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 01:23PM

DC - exactly ... we know what we know, huh! 😉

Forlorn66 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 01:01PM

@Exotic Orchid

I'm guessing you've had some bad experiences? Believe it or not, there are actually men out there that do care about personality.

Don't get me wrong, I guarantee that 99% of men have a reaction to the superficial at first, it's male nature but some can actually start thinking with their head and not being lead around by their genitals.

If someone is truly interested in the little things, I guarantee that they aren't bothered about a one and done, they want to please you. It may not be as exciting as getting into sex talk etc straight away but it's true. Please don't paint us all with the same brush.

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Clickable Connection - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:37PM

ExoticOrchid - 03 Jan, 2025 - 11:07AM

Can't speak for other guys , but I can definitely speak from my own experience. I've dated some women who are nothing but tits and bums - but if they didn't have the personality, I loose interest very quickly - it's happened on one than one occasion.

Having done this for awhile , I know what works for me - and it goes way beyond their physical appearance

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1542044 - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:26PM

Energy

Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:16PM

EO

Haha I’m humouring the man. Of course I don’t lol

I’m sure he’s after brownie points ;-)

Delicious Chaos - 03 Jan, 2025 - 12:15PM

EO haha considering some of the messages I’ve received recently then yes you’re probably right. Some men on here send some outrageous messages that they would never put on public!