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Three Little Words - 20 Dec, 2024 - 11:45AM

If there’s one partner who’s looking like she’ll be a good match for me and we’re getting on well, then I’ll usually stop talking/looking for others and concentrate on that one connection.

Sometimes that connection doesn’t bear fruition a d then it’s back to square one again.

For me, it’s easier to do it that way. I give one good woman my full attention. I guess I’m just traditional that way.

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Purple dreamer - 20 Dec, 2024 - 08:24AM

I think talking is a very different thing to meeting

boav91 - 20 Dec, 2024 - 06:29AM

I think the reality is when you are here initially you have to talk to lots of people to find the one you will become your ie. Until you settle on someone it has to be like that.

Once you have an ie then that may be different. Since I have met someone I don’t do conversations any more.

I was always honest at the start, although you don’t make a big thing of it and shout about it. That would be a bit weird. .Some understood others did not. It is all about understanding the nature of this place. If people here think they will be exclusive when not attached that I think is not realistic.

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Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2024 - 05:29AM

In the beginning of any relationship you have to chat with others to find out what you like …..does it really matter if he/she is chatting to other people?
If he/she really likes you …you will soon get their attention…why be concerned if there is no need to be ?
If he/she gives you one liners and random texts move on

Don’t overthink it 💋

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glassesman - 20 Dec, 2024 - 05:16AM

Was talking to one lady we were exchanging some pretty risqué emails (she initiated) we had not met so did not know whether we would get on . I then had a message on here from another lady seemed very keen tried to say I was hoping to see another lady she was very insistent so I tried to arrange a meet . It then transpired that this second lady was supposedly a friend of the first but I now believe it was a duplicate profile from only one lady . It resulted in a total break off but for me if she was going to behave like that a lucky escape

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Shiny90 - 20 Dec, 2024 - 01:04AM

I do find it slightly off putting because I'd of thought it's a given you wouldn't be speaking to multiple people on the site?