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Enigma.. - 08 Feb, 2025 - 06:52AM

Anyone who suggests meeting up in a car or in a hotel room, I personally, would avoid like the plague 😒.
Huge red flag 🚩 and suggests that they only have one thing on their mind, regardless of “chemistry” or not, they just want sex.
I mean come on… backseat of a car!! 🤷🏼‍♀️
Are you still stuck in your teens 🤣
The first meet should be in a public place such as a café, restaurant, pub, art gallery, beach for a walk etc…
Somewhere that you would both feel comfortable and relaxed in.

Just avoid the cctv cameras though 😉🤣.

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VeryCurvyLilly - 06 Feb, 2025 - 10:06PM

An art gallery can be nice for a meeting - you can talk and they all have a cafe somewhere - and you can see how curious the other one is :)

Scrappymog - 06 Feb, 2025 - 03:17PM

In the middle.

NaughtyManBerks - 06 Feb, 2025 - 08:23AM

I’d go with something casual first to ensure there’s chemistry. You need to have an ice breaker in a comfy setting.

A walk around town is good, as is a coffee shop, bar or pub. I’d never jump straight into fun on the first date.

1743424 - 05 Feb, 2025 - 11:01PM

Neutral ground, somewhere you can talk and laugh and see the real person not just the profile, on line chat and pictures.

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jonotwo - 05 Feb, 2025 - 09:11PM

A walk in the country also allows you to get lost somewhere quiet!

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Scottishian - 05 Feb, 2025 - 08:25PM

I'm thinking where to meet depends on whether you live in the city, or are more rural. Also, is it a first meet or a letter one. Is there a plan to go somewhere after meeting.. so many variables its hard to have a hard and fast rule.
Probably best somewhere public to start with but once the line has been crossed and sex is involved anywhere can be good...
So basically, I have no idea what and where I'd meet until I spoke to the woman and chatted for a bit..

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Here we go 693 - 05 Feb, 2025 - 05:29PM

I've met a couple of people for walks. Either beach or countryside, it allows for conversation about all sorts and is surprisingly anonymous, especially places away from home turf.

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Tallyd - 05 Feb, 2025 - 05:27PM

For face to face,I think even a coffee shop is ok. Just talk and meet. Pure connection!

youoweittoyourself - 05 Feb, 2025 - 04:04PM

The back seat of my Car is a great place to be in 😜