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Red Flags 🚩

We hear regularly about the 'Red Flags' that turn people off a person in conversation and dates/meets. What have been your 'Red Flag' experiences during conversations and/or first dates? What lifted up the 🚩 for you? Or maybe it was a few 🚩 and worthy of bunting?

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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 12:15PM

@ Paula99 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 11:52AM

Are you my ex wife πŸ€”πŸ˜†πŸš©πŸš©πŸš©πŸš©πŸš©πŸš©πŸš©

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laugar164 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 12:11PM

My red flag was how she slagged her husband off told me he drinks to much and is crap
In bed and that she was intending to leave him
She even offered to move near me leaving her two children with. There dad
Needless to say I finished it

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Paula99 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 11:52AM

We all have to be a little crazy to be here ….πŸ˜‰

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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 11:48AM

@ bazookajo - 31 Jul, 2024 - 10:56AM

See if I had felt at the time she was wanting to tell me perhaps I may have felt differently. But it was a throw away comment that I felt uncomfortable with . Her mannerisms were odd on top of this but hoohumm I hope she’s well .

I seem to attract the crazy people including my ex-wife 🀣


bazookajo - 31 Jul, 2024 - 10:56AM

@Funguy77, you are right about what's normal to one can be a red line too far for another.

But I bet your bipolar date agonised over whether to reveal to you something highly personal online or in person. Neuro-diverse people are dateable too!

(No I'm not btw)

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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 09:36AM

Well where to start . None of us are perfect and what one person feels is normal to them can be a no no to others.

A massive Red flag 🚩 I got from a coffee date was when she told me she was bipolar. Now mental health issues are not a joking matter but WTF 😳

Needles to say I never asked for a second date

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