Comments (96)

BeardsRule - 01 Aug, 2024 - 10:07PM

Very meta. I like that.

Funguy77 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 09:20PM

Dam I was too 😝

ExoticOrchid - 01 Aug, 2024 - 09:08PM

My 🚩🚩🚩 are men who complain about their red flags!!! 😒

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1408586 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 08:11PM

That’s a shame CatandTatman- think Funguy was hoping for some action 😂

1687814 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 07:39PM

@Funguy

Thx for the heads up. I’m in Glasgow this weekend and I was gonna visit Edinburgh but think I’ll give it a miss.🙏

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BeardsRule - 01 Aug, 2024 - 07:35PM

I’m pretty tolerant but a few red flags for me are:

- sending just a gift or VK to initiate conversation
- poor spelling or grammar
- not being *brutally* honest
- a significant mismatch between what’s written on the profile and the first IRL conversation
- *never* offering to pay for anything. I want to meet confident modern women, not gold diggers.

Some of the above may be considered “turn offs” rather than red flags, but pedantry would be a red flag too, wouldn’t it?

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Paula99 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 05:23PM

My biggest flag is …

Not reading my profile … 🚩

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Funguy77 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 04:35PM

Off topic but it’s the start of the Edinburgh festival today
Any of you planning on a weekend in Edinburgh 😝

FluffyClouds - 01 Aug, 2024 - 04:24PM

Funguy77 -

I think you've mentioned it on the forum...but a few do bring it up in direct messages. I've found it's the ones who aren't having much luck tbh and are perplexed that they have paid and lack their envisaged returns...in their mind

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Funguy77 - 01 Aug, 2024 - 02:05PM

Fluffy

That’s quite the list have listened all the red flags lol
I’ll admit to one of the items in your list 🤦‍♂️

I do complain about the cost but I’m not sure if I have done this in my messages perhaps one or two of the lovely ladies I have messages can help there or am I asking for trouble lol

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