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Testingthewater321 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 11:59PM

I think you have to be attracted to your IE partner but I’m more into someone if their personality and attitude is right. I think there is so much superficial nonsense about looking good people pass by a brilliant opportunity to have an all round connection. You can be the best looking girl or guy here but if you aren’t mentally matched it’s irrelevant.

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Paula99 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 08:13PM

Looks are somewhat important as they come under first impressions.. there has to be some visual appeal…if you are saying it doesn’t apply then your lying ..but looks are not everything..if you are not attracted to their personality/ demeanour then the person becomes unattractive…I have on dates with regular guys with a personality of a fence post 👎…I have also been on dates with guys that I wasn’t initially attracted to ….
Red flags are there for a reason …if the guy/lady asks you for your Pw in the first instance that should give you an indication that he/she requires someone to make them look good 🙄

Clickable Connection - 04 Dec, 2024 - 06:50PM

I'm actually finding this thread quite funny.

Ok so I do agree , instant password requests are most definitely a red flag - male of female.

However ....... For those pretending that looks are not a factor .... please!!! We want to be attracted to our IE partner - that attraction comes in many forms, but physical attraction is most definitely one of them, at least as a initial indicator. It's not everything, but to say it's not even a consideration, is probably abit disingenuous IMO.

Also given that most folks , men and women ask for a password early on ...I'd say that's a good indicator of what most think about looks.

Like I said it's not everything, but it's a consideration - and yes instant password requests huge red flags

Let the back lash begin 😂😂

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Werewolf - 04 Dec, 2024 - 06:29PM

this site and life can be the same, how many times in life have we engaged in conversation based on a situation or he/she looks nice only to discover during conversation you are not going to be a match in or out of the bedroom, so red flag wise it could be nailed to the top of their head or hidden in a wallet it is up to us to spot them.

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1027559 - 04 Dec, 2024 - 08:46AM

Bemused as to why many of the contributors on this thread seemingly find the need to even look at or request endless quantities of passwords.

If the profile is complete and well written
then you have the knowledge and character of the individual concerned
The fun is then in the discovery and the date.

I would suggest than anybody who has say requested more than 10 password reveals is possibly suffering with totally unrealistic expectations and should question reevaluate how open minded they are or would be better suited to a site of a different nature.

Get to know the person
and be honest…

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Dec, 2024 - 11:07PM

I would just like to point out that some gentlemen here seem to be confusing certain types of "ladies" (I use the term loosely) with genuine ones!

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Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 07:00PM

Magic Mouse 321…

I am sure if the situation was reversed and women had to pay them the men would ‘milk’ it ..

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MagicMouse321 - 03 Dec, 2024 - 06:34PM

Totally agree with you CheriePie…and all the subsequent comments.

(Those that ask for your password then disappear 🫥 are the worst)

What I’d add is that in men’s’ defence, we are charged to use the site so there is instantly an urgency applied as there’s a deadline looming.

Women are on the contrary no charge and happy to take their time, and disappear for a week or three 🤷‍♂️

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SirrahNek - 03 Dec, 2024 - 05:20PM

A presumption that I should have to pay, or that the woman concerned needs to be looked after is a turn off. I mean, yes, I almost certainly will try to pay - but that shouldn't be taken for granted, and the relationship should be based on equality, mutual respect and understanding.

A presumption that the ultimate relationship is a sexual one is also a turn off (paradoxically). There has to be something first, a foundation to build on.

Enigma.. - 03 Dec, 2024 - 01:01PM

CC…

I’m always polite and apologise and will say that they are not what I’m looking for.
I’ll wish them all the best and good luck 🍀.

True it does go both ways.
But surely males/females can come up with a more original first message than “what’s your photo password”??
Just makes them, in my eyes, judgemental, looks oriented and not the type of person I’d be willing to get to know 🤷🏼‍♀️.
Also some people don’t take getting a thanks but no thanks very well 🫤.

But why after messaging someone and saying you are not interested only to, a few days a week etc… down the line, get back in touch with them.
Comes across as pretty desperate to me 🫤.
I don’t block anyone without a good reason.

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