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Londonstories - 23 Oct, 2023 - 06:55PM

The timeless saying "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" serves as a reminder that true beauty extends beyond mere physicality. It encompasses the profound elements of passion, chemistry, and mutual respect between individuals. The holistic combination of compatibility, the ability to evoke laughter, and the art of flirtation holds greater value than superficial aesthetics alone. While initial attraction is crucial, it is suggested that women should perhaps recalibrate their focus away from appearances and instead seek a partner who embodies the full spectrum of desirable qualities. After all, our senses encompass more than just sight; our minds can be intellectually stimulated, fragrances can evoke intense emotions, and touch holds undeniable significance. Moreover, one's body type also plays a significant role, as it reflects dedication, consistency, and self-respect. While physical features cannot be changed, investing in one's physique demonstrates a commitment to personal growth and a genuine regard

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Paula99 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 06:54PM

I am sure this post reminds me of a post a few years back and the answer was Quasimodo

😂😂😂😂

Londonstories - 23 Oct, 2023 - 06:39PM

Beauty also lies in chemistry. I think we all mature here to understand looks are not everything. If the chemistry is missing or the other person is rude then looks doesn't matter. Of course one should attract you but give looks only 50% weightage and rest to the chemistry.

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ExoticOrchid - 23 Oct, 2023 - 05:24PM

When I was young (and possibly a little shallow 😲) it would be looks that first attracts me to a man ... in fact I married a very good looking guy whom everyone fancied.

However, I am now older, possibly a little wiser and definitely a lot less shallow, it is nolonger the case and I can say, hand on heart, it is the combination of person/personality that matters more than looks.

Yes, I do like to see someone's photo first but 99.9% of the time I will not make a judgement on that alone but wait to meet in person before deciding.

As for what "Enigma.. 04:59PM" says below about the men, I have to agree with her!!!

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Enigma.. - 23 Oct, 2023 - 04:59PM

This thread has made me smile…
Ok… I’m actually laughing out loud here 😉😂.
When someone has on their profile “Looks unimportant” or “I don’t have a type”!?!?
“Liar, liar pants on fire”. It’s the polite version of what I really want to say 😉.

If you don’t like what you see just say so. Wish me all the best and move on.

Meanwhile change your profile to “Yes I do have a type”. And “Yes looks are important”…
But I’m not going to change my profile…. Why!?!

Because it will narrow down the playing field 🤷🏼‍♀️🙄😉😂.

Ladies…. Run. Better get yourself a boat as well!?! After all the UK is an island 😉😂.

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FluffyClouds - 23 Oct, 2023 - 03:29PM

LadyDe -

I'm not looking for the opposite of my husband and I'm not looking for a duplicate of my husband either. But I am looking for someone who is in the same class in the looks department or thereabouts. Why would I downgrade on what I find visually attractive? I wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and chat them up if there wasn't some visual attraction to begin with.

If you're meaning 'opposite' to your husband in personality then fair enough, I get that.

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1622864 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 03:00PM

I agree with Stuart B77.

When a request for pw comes with the first message, you can bet the house that I will not be one she is looking for.

There a few ladies on here who have perfected the art of a brutal rejection in such a way that you love them regardless. They should be celebrated.

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1104299 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 12:50PM

My favourite on here is ‘looks aren’t important to me’, those with that description are normally asking for your photo password in the first or 2nd message and then ghost you when a pic is given… fickle 🤣

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1104299 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 12:48PM

I’m brutally honest with the description of myself, no delusion here! Don’t see the point in over egging your description of your picture can’t back it up!

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GarminGPS - 23 Oct, 2023 - 10:54AM

Attraction is a must. Seeing someone eye to eye means so much, whether you would like to kiss them or not is important. If it’s a yes then something happpens, but if not it’s thanks but no thanks and wish them well…there simply has to be a connection of some sorts and a need to fancy the other person

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