Should I feel guilty?
"Help IE! I'm worried the kid's school might be closed this week because of this news about concrete collapsing and having to homeschool again. Schools in Essex are affected but I don't know for sure yet. I know this might sound terrible, but in the past few weeks I have been planning to meet a lover I met online as soon as I dropped the kids off.
It's not the first time I have had an affair, but I had been planning it for when the kids go back as I have more time to myself. It's my little secret and I've been building up and so excited for this to happen and now it might be over. Now I don't know what to do, what do I say to my lover? I feel guilt for him and for the kids. I need advice.
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ExoticOrchid - 08 Sep, 2023 - 12:43AM
l164 - 02:28PM
I know ... I'm too optimistic! š
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1542651 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 03:17PM
Conman sense is more widespread unfortunately.
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laugar164 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 02:28PM
@ExoticOrchid
Common sense how very dare you expect people to have this š
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ExoticOrchid - 07 Sep, 2023 - 01:57PM
P99 - 01:30PM
Common sense isn't common ...unfortunately! š¤·
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Paula99 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 01:30PM
All is necessary is a little bit of common sense and communicationā¦simplesš¤¦š½āāļø
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1614977 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 12:55PM
Surely you can just rearrange š
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boav91 - 07 Sep, 2023 - 11:31AM
My view on this is if you want things to work longer terms then you have to give it a chance and if there are complications of life from time to time and it is a relationship that is working broadly otherwise then the person will understand. If you are looking for a quick fling them maybe not but if this is meant to be developing into something longer and the person is not a total idiot then there should be an understanding that real life has to come first some times and you have to be patient. the thing I always find hard is when people dont say and disappear. Be honest and you will find out where you stand.
If they dont want you after that or if you dont want them because you feel guilty then maybe it was not meant ot be
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ClassyLady77 - 06 Sep, 2023 - 09:48PM
š¤¦āāļø schools that are closing are either only partly closing or theyāve found alternative sites for.. so very few kids will be affected. IF your kids Schools are shut you would know by now..
As for your affair just tell him the truth. Things happen itās life. IF he doesnāt understand then heās not worth your time going forward..
vilbrequin1 - 06 Sep, 2023 - 02:19PM
The idea sounds like perfect end of the summer holidays!
Shouldnāt be too much of an issue to wait a little longer as any delay isnāt avoidable and plus if they arenāt then probably not the type you want to have an affair with
Real life and keeping the secret will always end up being priority
1590718 - 06 Sep, 2023 - 01:10PM
If heās worth your time and effort heāll understand. A gentleman would be reassuring you and telling you to put the children first. If heās not doing those things heās not worth your time.
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