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1597634 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 11:18PM

I am guilty of ghosting. How do I say that ‘you are not the type I’m looking for’ without hurting their feelings?
I once said that to someone and he was so heartbroken. Another one was so rude that I had to re evaluate my decision of being on this site🤣
So now, I find it easier to ghost rather than to be honest.

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Somniata - 14 Jul, 2023 - 10:52PM

What's up with these guys? I note from most posts here that it's mostly men behaving in this silly fashion! They are so keen at the start, bombarding you with messages all the time, then one day.......silence! A few have then resurfaced on kik, months later with the usual cheesy ' hi sexy/gorgeous' etc
I guess it's a good thing I don't take it all too seriously!

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1604430 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 08:05PM

Seems to be the in thing. I’ve had good conversation with people, asked one to see her face as it wasn’t on pics, stopped replying. Another I asked to meet and again stopped messaging.

If it were me, and I knew my subscription was ending I’d let people know not just vanish.

Seems to me too many people play games and not the fun type lol

Paula99 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 06:41PM

Guys and girls shoukd read this forum it’s eye opening and painstakingly real 😂😂😂😂

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1608605 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 06:01PM

Yup same here, stopped reading my messages after a few months so left him be, he’s on here with a new profile, (as am I) he’s messaged me, he sent his pw;
I had more fun concocting my response to his naked pictures than I ever had with him 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Parttimebf - 14 Jul, 2023 - 03:46PM

Got chatting exchanged loads of messages. Then swapped telegram.. sent a voice note... then instant block.

I don't even have an accent 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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Sandypops - 14 Jul, 2023 - 03:16PM

Had to comment again … I clearly type too much 🤦🏻‍♀️
The guy who asked me to let him know I’d got home safely after what seemed like a good first meet - never read my message saying I had! Still hasn’t 😂

I can’t abide a ghoster! So bloody rude 🤬

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Sandypops - 14 Jul, 2023 - 03:13PM

Newly separated guy, loads of great chat, videos, arranging to meet. Then messages to say he needs to come off ie and telegram for a bit but will be in tough as things are difficult at home (still shares house with kids and wife but in spare room)
He deletes telegram account.

A week later is messaging my friend on ie (he doesn’t know we are friends)
She didn’t reply (which I told her was rude) so she messaged him back a few weeks later to be told he had a great connection with someone and was exploring it
Why not just tell me he didn’t want to chat anymore! We’re all grownups.

And then the guy I’d been seeing who has literally disappeared off the planet! His wife had got suspicious as he was later home that the last train and came out looking for him 🤦🏻‍♀️
We laid low for a while to let the dust settle. But we were still messaging and video calling. Then talked about arranging another meet and ….. he vanished into thin air. Didn’t read my messages, doesn’t appear to

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1610978 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 02:11PM

It’s not an outlandish tale but the ghosting I can’t stand, especially when you’ve been meeting up with them for nearly a year!

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1610668 - 14 Jul, 2023 - 02:04PM

Newbie here so just dipping my toes in (doing my nosey 😂) before I commit to upgrading my membership. It’s refreshing to hear the comment “we all know the rules of the game ..” though. Not on here to b……t, just after some excitement and heart pumping chat.

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