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Sandypops - 24 Jul, 2023 - 12:24AM

Footman64
My last comment wasn't allowed for some reason, so I'll try again

I wanted to apologise for misunderstanding/misreading your post. I hadn't realised you'd been catfished by a man posing as a woman. So apologise for my insensitive comment 🤦🏻‍♀️

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1575958 - 23 Jul, 2023 - 11:06PM

Guess what, there's nothing wrong in that

1408586 - 23 Jul, 2023 - 05:00PM

True

And some of us want to do both 😉

1575958 - 23 Jul, 2023 - 04:29PM

@ Beckysharp

While I don't doubt that the are people of both sexes on here who just want to live out a fantasy. There are those, myself included and I suspect most on these forums, who are genuinely interested in an affair. Albeit long or short term arrangement.

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TheBoredHousewife - 23 Jul, 2023 - 06:42AM

Footman64 - 22 Jul, 2023 - 07:43PM

Many of us have met up with people who do not resemble their photos, but turning up as a different gender is a whole new level of deception!

Trust is such a huge thing, especially in what we’re doing (irony aside). Like Dotty Green said, there are lovely genuine ladies out there. Hopefully in time, you will feel comfortable enough within yourself to meet again.

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1529050 - 22 Jul, 2023 - 10:17PM

Footman64 - 22 Jul, 2023 - 07:38PM

As EO says def report maybe admin can see things like ip addresses and block

Terrible situation - catfishing at it lowest form

It takes a huge amount of trust to meet someone and this will make you never want to trust anyone.

I’m so sorry - but can assure you there are lovely genuine ladies out there

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ExoticOrchid - 22 Jul, 2023 - 09:21PM

F64 - 07:38PM

Definitely report that profile please ... that person has serious issues!!!

07:43PM

Don't blame you ... he did a sick thing ... first I've heard of this kind of behaviour here.

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Footman64 - 22 Jul, 2023 - 07:43PM

I may be gullible but I am not stupid. His messages and photos gave no hints. I still feel sullied by the whole thing!

He did go on in his messages about how many messages he receives here on a daily basis from other men.

I think I need another hot shower. Maybe I will try bleach this time instead of soap!

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Footman64 - 22 Jul, 2023 - 07:38PM

Should I report the profile? I have not been here very long so unsure of what to do about it (if anything).

Footman.

PS: I am a male. From what I have learned so far, this site must be incredibly flattering if you are a woman. Maybe that is a motivation for him? OTH, maybe he has deeper issues.

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1529050 - 21 Jul, 2023 - 10:06PM

Sandypops - 21 Jul, 2023 - 06:22PM

Like EO says Footman64 is a man … and was catfished by a guy to the actual point of meeting

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