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Performance Ratings???


I read something in the papers recently about people secretly giving performance ratings to their lovers and it made me think. Do you do that?  Also, if your lover is insecure enough to ask, would you be honest or would you say of course you are top rated to make them feel better? Discuss!

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boav91 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 08:53AM

For me this is so short termist. If you are having a series of ONS then compare away. You are then ranking your notches. If you want to develop a real connection then over time with the right person you get to know each other, you talk about what was great and what you could try next time, how to improve it for both of you. If anyone thinks they are perfect and know the person straight off and what makes each person have a perfect time they are deluded. Sorry but you can have as much technique as you like and you make the other person climax but my experience is everyone is different and needs different things to arouse them to their peak. 10/10 only comes when you have got to know the person so well you know those boxes to tick and what each other like and don’t like and communicate what you want to try next and do more . That comes from not having ONS and actually developing a connection over a bit of time, it only then gets better and better and better with the right person at least,

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MurphysLaw - 22 Aug, 2024 - 07:33PM

Sex should be a steady flow of communication. Both giving information and recieving it.
If you communicate it's always 10/10

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Abs Olute Newbie - 17 Aug, 2024 - 07:50PM

Im just thinking …
You get intimate
You finish the session
You go drive hime
You park in your drive and you get a customer survey text.
Rate our session…. Yuk

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1680841 - 04 Aug, 2024 - 09:55PM

Is it not bad enough we have to work to KPIs at work, that we now have to do the same with our affairs?? 🤣🤣🤣

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Lady Heather 69 - 04 Aug, 2024 - 03:12PM

Not something I've ever considered doing. I'd hate to think what my grades would be like. Hate exams 😆


Enigma.. - 04 Aug, 2024 - 09:50AM

Why have I got this vision in my head…

So a couple have sex…

I’m suddenly seeing a wrestling ring.
With one of those women dressed in silk shorts, a vest top, knee high socks and trainers.
You know the type… big (fake) hair, big (fake) boobs, big (fake) teeth, big (fake) smile and plastered in makeup. Probably sleeping with the ref too… 😂
Anyhoo…
She’s holding up one of those giant score cards 😂😉😝.

Marks out of 10 for technique?
Marks out of 10 for performance?
Marks out of 10 for content?

Yes… welcome to my crazy world 😉😂😃.

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laugar164 - 03 Aug, 2024 - 10:18PM

Mr rightnow , Paula
You forgot to add succession planning to the list

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Paula99 - 03 Aug, 2024 - 06:48PM

MrRightNow….

They would probably be ‘micromanaged’ meetings 😂😂😂

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Mr_RightNow - 03 Aug, 2024 - 05:07PM

Who does that!? And who would tell if they did??!! What next, appraisals and performance management meetings…?

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EmnEm123 - 03 Aug, 2024 - 02:40PM

People may secretly rate lovers, we can all click with people more than others.

If anyone was insecure enough to ask me that question, we're done. Surely you know if the person you're with is genuinely having a good time or not?

As for those who are always posting about "statistics say" or "watch this"... please!

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