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FluffyClouds - 25 Aug, 2022 - 02:49PM

EmnEm123 -

No, but I know what the definition of a mug is

EmnEm123 - 24 Aug, 2022 - 08:17PM

Sun_Beach&S....

It would appear that you have absolutely no understanding of what a Pimp is! 🤣🤭🥱

Sun_Beach&S.... - 23 Aug, 2022 - 09:15AM

@anna_banana
Sounds to me that you are after pimp not a bf 🤣🤭

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1529050 - 23 Aug, 2022 - 08:34AM

The first meeting - I always feel is best as a coffee or drink - after work or at lunch time. Just that it gives you a way out if needed - o need to get my train home - or need to get back to work. If there is a spark it gives you the opportunity to stay for one or two more....

I have met one guy for dinner it was awful - I could tell he did not want to be there and it was just ... ugh.

I then consider the next meeting more of a date situation, one chap took me to a gorgeous little French bistro then on to a posh hotel for a post lunch drink - and it was just so nice, then we planned our next proper meet. This time, again pub drink for the first meet which turned in to 3 or 4 (I was on the water as driving) next meet, a few drinks in a nice bar then off to a lovely cosy pub for food and planning our meet - this for me works .....

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Zeno73 - 22 Aug, 2022 - 11:27PM

A walk with dogs if both are dog owners. As long as the dogs don't talk to your other half that is.

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1447655 - 22 Aug, 2022 - 10:40PM

First meet only needs to be coffee, a walk, a train ride, a glass of wine, even just a park bench, if you want to go 'retrotastic' like Ria and Leonard aka 'Butterflies' (i'm attempting romance here.) It doesn't even have to be a date. You'll know within an hour. Less. And then skiddaddle. You don't even need to kiss. The feeling you get in your stomach on the drive home tells you what you need to know. That's your gut talking - and not those crazy endorphins.

And definitely stay clear of meets in cars...

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anna_banana - 22 Aug, 2022 - 10:19PM

I wear long acrylics, if my potential bf take me to nail saloon, i will loose my mind :D (in a good way)

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EmnEm123 - 22 Aug, 2022 - 09:13PM

Go for a drink.

I met a guy once, I think it was obvious from the outset that we weren't compatible, we had a couple of drinks, a lovely chat, went our separate ways.

As someone else said, be polite, but I understand the grievance when you have made an effort to turn up and the other person is a complete liar!

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EmnEm123 - 22 Aug, 2022 - 08:59PM

Aiden47

Your wife is 'amazing'?

You can pop out during the day for a 'bit'?🤮

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EmnEm123 - 22 Aug, 2022 - 08:55PM

Dotty/P99

Fair enough, good for you!👍

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