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Double Dippers

You meet someone here, start dating them, build the connection, but then see them still active on here... Yet they reassure you that they are absolutely into you, that everything is perfect, that you are the woman of their dreams. If you aren't sure they will be the one, create a backup of a backup, pause and think... How fair is that?I have ghosts upon ghosts returning, wondering why I abruptly ended dating. I value myself and know what I have to offer, and that is an exclusive and absolutely fantastic affair. I refuse to settle for double dippers.

Any one else agree?

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Delicious Chaos - 23 Jun, 2022 - 06:00PM

Near wild heaven

Good to hear, but happy to meet those that do? 🤔

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1382700 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 05:31PM

@Secretvixen @BH…

I’m one of such men. Never cheated on anyone in my life


1494077 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 05:08PM

To be fair, I have had a few ‘I resent my wife’ revelations.
So it does happen.
Maybe it depends how comfortable people are in sharing.

Like anything, to each his own on any kind of sharing. But always remember to be kind when some one bares their heart out to you. It doesn’t mean they will want to shack up with you anytime soon, just that they feel that they are in a safe space around you, so let us offer a listening ear.

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EmnEm123 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 04:53PM

Strawberry Teaser

It's not something that a person would just blurt out.

What brings you here? Well, I despise my wife.

There has been a lead up to it, a tolerated lead up!

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1529441 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 04:35PM

Paula99

No problem with it at all. But you get the added sarcasm with 'an opinion' which is totally unnecessary.

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Paula99 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 03:04PM



This is a chat forum there will be a difference of opinion and if your answer promotes another question or aspect to it how can you expect others not to offer their own personal conclusion?

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1529441 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 02:40PM

EmnEm123

Good for you, but I never said I continued the conversation..... Thanks


EmnEm123 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 02:19PM

Strawberry Teaser

I'm well aware of the many and varied reasons why people stay in their marriages, thanks.

Where you and I differ is that if a man was to start bitching and complaining that they despise their wives the conversation would be at an end.

Doesn't sound like someone I would want to be around. An affair doesn't mean that you need to slag off your partner.

I would also add that I have never spoken to any man on here who has came close to saying anything like that.

Most are just looking for sex, perhaps in a sexless marriage but can still be generally happy with their home life.

Of course, the same applies to women.

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Paula99 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 12:53PM

Dvgt1972....my my you are a happy bunny😏
What would you have us do?..send you references..!

You're not coerced into being on here so stop whining 🤥

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1529441 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 12:18PM

Dgvt1972

Some might do that, but I've had men who have had no problem at all with coming of the site when they want to form a relationship with me. They're the decent ones.

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