Double Dippers
You meet someone here, start dating them, build the connection, but then see them still active on here... Yet they reassure you that they are absolutely into you, that everything is perfect, that you are the woman of their dreams. If you aren't sure they will be the one, create a backup of a backup, pause and think... How fair is that?I have ghosts upon ghosts returning, wondering why I abruptly ended dating. I value myself and know what I have to offer, and that is an exclusive and absolutely fantastic affair. I refuse to settle for double dippers.
Any one else agree?
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EmnEm123 - 10 Jan, 2024 - 09:53PM
If you can’t see your IE active here it doesn’t mean they aren’t active elsewhere.
If you are meeting people from this site then you are a cheat, or helping someone else to cheat.
It always amazes me how people can use their version of so called ‘morals and ethics’ to suit their own agenda.
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Paula99 - 10 Jan, 2024 - 03:04PM
Not really sure it’s healthy to have unprotected sex lots of people …the obvious thing is you’re passing the diseases on and on…..don’t tell me guys like using protection because they bloody well don’t 🙄..
There is nothing like an exclusive IE
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laugar164 - 10 Jan, 2024 - 11:57AM
Wow Becky what was he thinking telling you that maybe I secretly wanted to end it but did have the balls
Or he was a complete dick that
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achilliesj - 10 Jan, 2024 - 11:53AM
Wouldn’t worry about it - go and double/triple dip yourself 🤷♂️
ExoticOrchid - 09 Jan, 2024 - 05:16PM
Sometimes honesty really isn't the best policy!!!
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1408586 - 09 Jan, 2024 - 01:38PM
That experience did really hurt me though. I doubt he realised… or cared
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1408586 - 09 Jan, 2024 - 01:14PM
A long term affair once messaged me on a Saturday morning to tell me he was going to be on IE quite a bit but definitely hadn’t signed up as gold!!! I assume he was hoping to find someone newer and more exciting (I was pretty confident he wouldn’t 😂). From then on I was on here a lot. Looking for someone better than him!! Carried on seeing the ex (because a decent affair is hard to find) until I was finally able to upgrade last year.
I still have no idea why he told me. Other than he was an idiot 😂.
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1586130 - 09 Jan, 2024 - 12:34PM
Woman Who Is Dating Guy Sneaks Online To See If She Can Get Better Guy. SHOCKED To Find Guy Doing Same.
🤣🤣🤣
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Bucksjohn - 09 Jan, 2024 - 12:29PM
I've been on the site for a short time and looking to meet one person only. The connection needs to be built and trust and attention needs to be given to one person only
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Life is a beach - 08 Jan, 2024 - 09:06PM
There are some interesting thoughts here.
I completely agree with the comment that there has to be mutual trust for the relationship to last.
My IE and trust each other. To me, that is a strong base to a relationship.
Like some of you, I would log to reply to people who have got in touch with a polite no and wish them well. I would also say I have already got an IE. People contacting me are often happy with the reply, except for one that failed to register that someone could be simply online and not looking 😅. You can't win sometimes!
I also like reading the forums and reading the various comments.
Personally, double dipping is not for me.
Being online doesn't mean you are double dipping.
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