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Paula99 - 10 Mar, 2023 - 12:42PM

This subject is doing the rounds ..AGAIN

If you are intelligent ..single ..married ..or living in sin ..then why would you want to get involved with someone at work ?
You are the topic of conversation.. the group dynamics alter and you drive everyone to distraction..it’s got nothing to do with jealousy or attention…just less work gets done..if you have a falling out then that manifests into the workplace ..which means you can cut the atmosphere with a knife ..in turn makes OP generally pissed off ..
Further down the line you get called in the office and told to ‘cool off your affair’ then you are walking around with face like thunder and then you expect your work colleagues to be sympathetic and you wonder if it was all worth the hassle???

Worst case scenario you could have a written warning or the sack for sexual harassment…why would you risk all of that ?😕

This should be in the rule book for cheaters …. Don’t shit on your own doorstep 😂

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HampshireClaret - 10 Mar, 2023 - 12:33PM

My advice...

"Don't shit on your own doorstep".

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Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2022 - 07:18PM

Marlen … . I have to agree with this one.

Don’t risk your company perks for a quick shag 😕

Mipaulac…before you go off on one …no I have never been in this position or do I intend to be .. 😂

Marlen - 20 Dec, 2022 - 02:34PM

Depending on your employer, check your contract. Some insist on being advised if you get into a relationship with a work colleague. For every relationship that works, loads don't. If one of you gets spiteful, if things don't work out it could be difficult at work. However, if you're prepared to change jobs if it doesn't work, go for it!

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SugarCherrylips - 19 Dec, 2022 - 09:37AM

I did too and that’s why I ended up on IE.

midnight_rambler - 28 Nov, 2022 - 08:26PM

Only you can decide , weigh up the risks and the pros and the cons. I did and we had eight wonderful years together off and on (more on than odd). When it came to a conclusion I ended up on IE.

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1565974 - 26 Nov, 2022 - 08:18PM

Oh gosh well certainly learn from others mistakes Paula99 know all about that???

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Paula99 - 26 Nov, 2022 - 07:25PM

Mipaulac….

Human nature will never be prohibited.. but I hope that some may learn from others mistakes..🤔

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mipaulac - 26 Nov, 2022 - 06:11PM

Paula99

On a general, overt fling basis yes but how can you prohibit human nature

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Paula99 - 25 Nov, 2022 - 12:05PM

Mipaulac…

Do you not agree with me?

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