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EmnEm123 - 06 Aug, 2024 - 01:01PM

Lady Heather

There's plenty 'mental' on this place! 😜

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Lady Heather 69 - 04 Aug, 2024 - 03:25PM

I prefer to get to know someone, have a conversation with questions about our lives. Small talk if you will. Let's face it, majority of people are here to meet up and have sex.For sex to be good there needs to be a mental connection first.

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Jonnydieppe - 01 Aug, 2024 - 06:47PM

I send very lovely, normal, human messages to my matched IEs , I don’t ‘think’ I’m doing anything wrong? I’m a nice guy, I’m successful in my work life, I’m creative, arty and have plenty of time for meets. Yet 99% of the time I get no response, I can see women have seen my message, sometimes numerous, yet get no reply. It’s either rude, in which case I’m not interested anyway :) or I’m doing things wrong.

It’s the craziest site I’ve been on.

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1689233 - 29 Jul, 2024 - 01:08PM

The "just being friendly" line applies to the outside world. We're all here for the same reason so if someone is replying to you then they're interested!

I am me, I'm not trying to strike any balance. I'm neurodiverse so spent my whole life masking who I am. Be considerate but be yourself first. Affairs can be a great way to gain an insight into yourself so listen to what woman say about why they're here - you might find a mirror being held up to yourself. That's the real meaningful change you can make.

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1687814 - 29 Jul, 2024 - 11:40AM

It’s just a chat, I don’t attach anything to it and any further chats are at their discretion. No biggie.

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The_Fit_Gent - 28 Jul, 2024 - 10:23AM

Out of pure curiosity, what exactly do you mean by ‘successful engagement’? Sounds like a business meeting where you closed a deal 🤔

1686467 - 28 Jul, 2024 - 10:23AM

Relatively new to this myself.. Month or so..

I've mentioned this approach in another similar FF thread, so will highlight it again here..

Of the two most successful engagements I have had so far, they were primarily due to me being able to provide her with an intro video of myself to set the scene. Now, this does require an element of confidence from the outset.. but let me tell you this guys.. It will mostly impress rather than have a negative effect.

Most people I find like to see who they're going to be conversing with from the get go and if you can both pass that initial private photos test (visual attraction), then a quick 30sec to 1min video (real personality/mannerisms exposure) from the outset and often during the course of your engagement, can go a long way to prolonging messaging and taking things to the next level. Its by no means a guarantee mind.. but i believe it puts you in a much stronger position and makes you stand out from the crowd.

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1688599 - 28 Jul, 2024 - 08:50AM

From a womans perspective after having been contacted by quite a few arrogant and self absorbed men who are only after what I can describe as superficial meetings for one off sex meets, then after a while you can more or less suss out the good from the bad chats.
If someone is interested in something a little more meaningful then they will ask more questions about you and your wants and desires..
When you find someone genuinely interested in you then you will just know!..its about the spark and the connection.

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1617470 - 27 Aug, 2023 - 12:23AM

Eww I've just read the most arrogant profile. Turned me off straight away!

Funguy77 - 12 Aug, 2023 - 08:00PM

Guys and girls I’m a classic over thinker 🤔 💭
What’s your advice to me . I believe my chat is extremely good but recently I’m not getting very far or at least I don’t think I am …

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