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Jackd2024 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 08:38PM

If it’s going to happen it usually happens pretty quickly. Sometimes first meet , sometimes second sometimes third. That said there’s usually quite a bit of texting and actual chatting before meeting at all. Because of our situations, most haven’t got unlimited time so things tend to happen quicker

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Northernguy84 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 03:47PM

Nina Oakley - I'm just here for the other pedants 😅😅

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Suzanne1983 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 01:11PM

New record for me. Chatted 1 day met day 2 and whithin 10 mins in bed lol :-)

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laugar164 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 11:59AM

I have no expectations if I ever get to meet a potential IE
Just take it as it comes and see if there is a mutual attraction I would never suggest a hotel on the first meet

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NinaOakley - 03 Apr, 2024 - 11:05AM

They are, not there are! I may be relatively easy but I do have reasonable command of the English language!

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FeelingPeachy - 03 Apr, 2024 - 11:01AM

The simple answer is when and only when it feels right ! Neither party should be pressured , quality over quantity always

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NinaOakley - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:59AM

I know there are a lot of men on here claiming to high earning alpha males collecting extra women like trophies. I’m not interested in those any more than there are me. I want a normal person who can offer the warmth, affection and sensuality I crave. That means they are probably also raising a family and dealing with the cost of living crisis in real life, too. Travel/hotels/meals/dates with the but on the side are significant expenses I have to think about and I’m sure the men I’’m interested in do, too.

Flirty messages and photos give you a good idea, cheap date (coffee, bar, dog walk!) to decide they are not actually repugnant for some reason that cannot be communicated online…at that point I would say I’m either going to bow out gracefully or be ready to suck it and see!

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One 2 one - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:58AM

I tend to find if it doesn't happen within the second meet, it won't happen at all.

Teacher1956 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:57AM

I’ve had a few IE relationships over a decade. Two became sexual on the first date and the remainder definitely within a month.

GreyBeard48 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 10:15AM

Last time I met someone on a dating site (a long time ago now), I made it an absolute rule that I would be a gentleman: spend a couple of hours chatting, maybe a kiss, then walk away.

Didn't work, ended up in bed all afternoon, but at least I can say "she made me do it"!

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