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young fun mum - 26 Jan, 2025 - 11:46AM

I think if the chemistry is there, and I'm excited, I'd jump him as soon as I could lol

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Paula99 - 25 Jan, 2025 - 06:48AM

Corgi50..

It’s nice to read posts from older guys and it proves that there is more to the phrase ‘old dog new tricks’…hope you find your new lover 😊

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Corgi50 - 24 Jan, 2025 - 10:46PM

Mine is with a lover of 5 years so far. We contacted through a site and emailed and messaged for about 3 months. I was in a sexless msrriage and she hsd been married twice and hurt badly abd just wanted a lover. Then the opportunity of meeting came through and met at a Costa in her town. After an hour of talking she invited me to hers which is where we kissed, talked and kissed talked and then spent 2 hours of unforgetable passion. Sexually she was inexperienced because the husbands were happy with the basics but we lit a fire that kept on glowing. Each meet was different but I always left with a glow on my face and memories to savour plus knowing more is to come.

Braveheart35 - 23 Jan, 2025 - 04:17AM

The first time we met outside a busy city centre restaurant having already booked a hotel beforehand the day before...we were both up for it and my lady ie pounced on me in the lift up to our room...lets just say we had a very delicious afternoon together which was repeated again and again.

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LoverLee951 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 08:47PM

It really depends on chemistry...sometimes things can take a little time, there might be a little nervousness on both sides, for instance...but sometimes its good to take a little time, and let excitement build....

World Enough and Time - 22 Jan, 2025 - 05:27PM

I think much depends where the meeting is, what ground has already been covered online, already how comfortable we feel about expressing our desires and where the conversation leads….

Businessgent 59 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 01:33PM

the biggest problem I have found on here is not when you actually meet someone. I have met two ladies and both time s we got intimate on the first date. These ladies knew what they wanted and it happened.

Too my ladies on here want endless chats and do not really want to meet. A red flag to me is someone who will only chat on ie and not any other app and then they only reply every few days. You can build a connection like that

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1715930 - 21 Jan, 2025 - 11:25AM

has to be up to the lady

Ken46riderr - 20 Jan, 2025 - 11:36PM

If the question is about it being 'sexual' than being about 'sex', I'd say it can be so right from the beginning.
Imagine meeting for the first time after a few days of messaging, exchanging a few pics etc. but the moment I see her for the first time in person, there's butterflies in my stomach. That first kiss on the cheek or a handshake (if I'm really unlucky), the first time our skin touch. Gazing in to her piercing eyes, looking at the way she speaks, her scent. Tell me one thing that's not sexual about that. Nothing like that first meet in person.

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FlirtFinder - 20 Jan, 2025 - 09:47PM

I think it's down to the connection between the two people involved. If you're going to have a nice time on the first date and it ends with a kiss or two, it might be good for both to consider something more intimate on the second date. I agree with what other people say: it's about both being comfortable with each other. So the simple answer is: it could be fast or slow.